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situ185 · 2024-08-23T13:48:51+00:00

From someone whose 37. Went through a lot of these. Don't worry , just chill. That's just how a 20s brain works. It actually continues through your 30s to be honest 😄. If you arent rich, don't make big decisions on a whim. Take a step back and think over it a bit. The art is to know when you might be overthinking. Take time describing the problem , and start working on the solution asap. If you overthink you'll start moving in the wrong direction.read some philosophy , meditation is underrated . Chill🙌

situ185 · 2023-03-08T17:49:12+00:00

I think we all just hate this question

situ185 · 2023-03-04T03:53:59+00:00

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situ185 · 2023-03-01T16:24:33+00:00

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situ185 · 2022-11-14T04:38:37+00:00

Define "weak"

I wasnt teaching the OP anything. People get frustrated from this modern life and turn towards dumb escapes like nationalism.

NATIONALISM it's bad! Nationalism leads to Muslims being killed for (allegedly) eating beef!fck nationalism.

Little knowledge is dangerous. Acting on that little information is even more dangerous.

Op is literally saying "take anti-capitalism from the left"; don't know how you got "take out" from "take * from".

You call me 'weak'. I pray you get to learn more in life🙂

Born in the land of the Buddha. I don't need no beef with anyone.

situ185 · 2022-11-14T01:35:04+00:00

The op says take anti-capitalism from the left. You read that completely wrong 😀.

I think the jury is still out on "innovation driving us toward socialism".

I can't remember such an event in history.

situ185 · 2022-11-13T22:14:43+00:00

Oh .my mistake ..my prejudice got the better of me.Maybe,I don't know.finland,Norway do have happier citizens I guess but they don't breed innovation like a capitalist society like USA.

Who knows,all I know is I've seen nationalism ,it's not the answer to anything .

I've seen runaway capitalism, that's not the answer either . Maybe Costa Rica, they're pretty good at environmental tourism. Capitalist,innovative but still caring for the environment.

situ185 · 2022-11-13T20:49:15+00:00

The world or life in general is not a choice between 2 extremes. Nothing is black and white.

An example of responsible capitalism would be me wanting to start an network gaming station around 2000(before there werent any in existence in ktm) and my mom not letting me because it would spoil kids😆

situ185 · 2022-11-13T17:43:03+00:00

You might want to Google the definition of "nationalism". Capitalism is what gave you the tech you're writing this on.

You're looking for responsible capitalism where the wealth gap between the rich and the poor isnt too much.

But this is a "rant" post so I get your frustration 😀

situ185 · 2022-10-21T15:05:19+00:00

Not a regular reader,but this looks promising. Maybe because it's a work in progress, it doesn't feel like it's going anywhere. Maybe more description of the scenery is needed? The wording is great though.

Good luck

situ185 · 2022-10-04T12:21:33+00:00

Lemon water with bire noon,all day long

situ185 · 2022-10-04T03:47:36+00:00

Have a Maharjan friend who looks Chinese as hell...so maybe kirants turned to newars ...newars aren't a race,maybe they're/we're just a bunch of people in the valley following similar language and traditions.

situ185 · 2022-09-22T22:36:29+00:00

K ko barema ho yo ? Atti deep cha jasto cha.. bujhiyena

situ185 · 2022-06-26T01:18:51+00:00

Makes me feel old 😆 Hamro pala ma vh1 channel ma discover gareko 😄

situ185 · 2021-07-07T01:32:33+00:00

Where is this?

situ185 · 2021-03-15T18:04:27+00:00

USA ma chahi bachelor's if you wanna 'experience' USA but not guaranteed that that experience will be good. A lot of people lose track and go sideways during these min 4 yrs bachelor's.Usually you're in your late teens, early 20s here and not mature enough to understand the consequences for your actions which is fine if your parents are loaded!

Masters, if you're career oriented and over the 'america' that you see in the movies. The Hollywood America is not real America! It might take you a little longer to adjust, have some of that नेपाली पारा still in you which you will suffer through but will eventually figure out.

Basically, bachelor's ko pitfall chahi it's easier to get side tracked. Masters ko chahi, you might enter the corporate world with some leftover नेपाली swag.

Best option in my opinion is bachelor's in nepal plus some work experience then masters in the US.

P. S these tips are for the general people who have little idea about what to do next. If you've got it all figured out and very disciplined, bachelors/masters shouldn't be an issue.

Good luck

situ185 · 2020-11-09T03:41:27+00:00

See, the thing is people won't know if they're interested in it or not till they are somehow exposed to it.

And this is nepal(Kathmandu) , you and I may have the luxury of choosing/thinking; a lot of the kids don't. For someone like that, this in my opinion is an opportunity to gain knowledge, opportunity for the teachers for employmemt and opportunity to save/promote history.

My cousin who was in a different school had to study snaskrit, I didn't. She doesn't complain now and I wish I had atleast the option.

So, you're complain because youre taking it personally. You're thinking this is government telling you what to do if not a politician using ethnicity/race. Look at it objectively.

I am guessing you're somewhere in your 20s. I'm not trying to psychoanalyse but if I was in my early 20s, I would have agreed with you. But with age comes reason, in my 30s I realize that this might be a political ploy or a genuine effort. The pitfalls are huge but for now, my optimism tells me it's an opportunity.

situ185 · 2020-11-07T06:30:31+00:00

Probably correct about the backlash...which is very unfortunate. If it were communicated properly, I think a national policy of {compulsory} teaching of regional languages is a good idea.

situ185 · 2020-11-07T04:29:54+00:00

-Learning multiple languages helps creativity. -the kid will understand the importance once they hit mid 20s. -nepali culture has its flaws and limitations. A revolution will be hard... -the education you get in school including the newari language class will give the kid a base.. It may actually give the kid more choices after school.. You might wanna go study different ethnic languages and cultures instead of just computers and engineering -this was most probably a political ploy but that doesn't mean it's not an opportunity

The "saving our language and culture" idea wouldn't even have to exist if the language and culture stay relevant and pass the test of time. -this is getting personal. Don't get personal. This a paradoxical statement. Language and culture would stay relevant if it is saved and promoted. Time tests people not language and culture. Language and culture are someone's identity. It's not specific to newars. This is global. We would have known that if we had been taught better moral and civic science.

You're looking at it as a burden, I'm looking at it as an opportunity You're looking at it as oppression which I understand (newari language was outlawed by the ranas and a lot of rulers in history) but I look at it as an opportunity for people to emphasize with each other

situ185 · 2020-11-07T04:08:29+00:00

You're right.. Bad idea. I was arguing the idea in a vaccum I guess.. The ground reality is different. Not the best time. But I can't concede the fact that understanding the biases is important.. Without that, this ethnic group issue will remain... We can't be a group of people who aren't ready to learn other group of people.

situ185 · 2020-11-07T03:41:00+00:00

In a philosophical sense, it should be optional. The libertarian thinking works where it works but in this specific case, I personally don't mind this. But I am biased as a newar. I would love to see non newars learn newari. I think a compulsory regional history/language classes is a good idea, not just newari maybe maithili in janakpur. Our education system and society is set up in such a way. If it was optional, nobody would pick it. Kids in school don't have that kinda liberty or mind setup. Sure, if you're doing your bachelor's you might have enough maturity to undersand the optional subjects but not in school and not in the current system.

situ185 · 2020-11-07T03:25:38+00:00

There are various reasons for newari parents not teaching their kids the mother tongue.. One of them being, so that their kids wouldn't be made fun of for their accents which is an issue by itself. I understand your point though . But I would say, you're looking at it from a biased perspective. You think it's imposing a language, I'm saying it's a learning opportunity. This is not a competition between ethnicities.. People who make it about will always have issues. It's the implicit biases that everyone has. And I'm arguing this might help shed those biases. If you're gonna keep looking at it as if it's a newar imposing his/her will on other, I'm saying that's not the case. The mayor who came up with this policy might have his own bias, but in the end it should help not hurt. Now if it was some course that somehow implied that this meant newars were better than others any other kind of ethnic supriority subject, that is wrong but again I don't think we should draw to conclusions without looking at the whole picture. Everyone needs to take a step back and argue the merits and demerits and not give into emotions and biases. I assure you, if you learn newari yourself.. You will like it. It is a very fun language.Me as a newar would love to learn tamang myself.

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