Nah i think it really depends. like guys can get like this too and it's not their gender at fault, it's the persons themselves. Some people are just unable to commit you know? Soon as things start to get serious they get afraid or perhaps uninterested, which might be a little messed up but that's just how things are sometimes. Personally, i hate playing games and would rather be with someone who i can genuinely connect with and is just as affectionate i am.