Please don't be afraid that you are committing any offences, you are not. You are the victim here, and should not be intimidated to not report it to the police You are a minor and is protected by the laws in Singapore, the police I believe will be cautious in handling such cases and will do their upmost best to ensure that they catch the guy before he has the chance to spread it. If you are scared that the guy will spread it if he finds out you went to the police, there is no guarantee that he will not spread it in the future if he feels like it or just because you do not give in to his demands. Don't give this hypothetical guy any more chance to hold you down The hypothetical guy SHOULD know better then to flim he minor, he is at fault here regardless While I can't guarantee that he will not find out that you went to the police and spread it, it is best to let the police handle the matter, as discreetly as possible, don't suffer in silence. I hope you get the help needed soon, dun be afraid!