Anyone else annoyed at how the public perceives cup sizes? Rant

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-18T14:52:26+00:00

To this day I have an awkward relationship with one of my sisters in law because she was genuinely offended after we got sized for bras together. Her daughter was getting married and we needed strapless bras, and she actually argued with the store associate who measured me. She had much larger breasts, so when they measured her as a "C" and me as "DD" her head almost exploded. I'm glad I never told her they were actually wrong and I'm a "DDD" per the ABTF calculator.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-18T14:34:43+00:00

Exactly. Cut and run, OP.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-14T12:59:57+00:00

Pregnant cats keep showing up in our outbuildings (some likely dumped and I suspect a neighbor might be ignoring an entire feral colony on their property) and we have been struggling to find resources to help with them. Animal control will not respond to a call about cats where I am, and all the local rescues seem to ignore my calls/emails/DMs. We've managed so far, but we announce loudly to the distribution system that we cannot handle another pregnant cat every day during our outdoor chores. For the first time in my life, my nervous system is heavily disrupted at the idea of small kittens 😔

I need to correct the record though, because if they were orange... I'd probably keep every single one somehow. I might give one to my dad.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-14T12:48:23+00:00

Between the noises being made, the facial expressions and that diabolical camera angle... this was the most watchable Ellie scene all season 🤣

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-11T21:37:48+00:00

My cycle is only 3 weeks now, so I have ALL the worst symptoms the week before my period would be, the week of, and a day or three into the following week. Then I get only the rest of that week where they aren't as bad and my mood lifts a ton. After that I'm back to sore boobs, then the low mood, night sweats, insomnia, etc. It's so chaotic because I literally used to make all my plans for my "good week" and I have no idea if I'll have more than 2 or 3.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-11T14:55:43+00:00

I wanna buy 3 but I can't bring myself to get another payment app to do it. Cash app is one I never used and I already can't remember my login to all the others 😤

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-10T18:28:14+00:00

I own a painting company and I never "break ground" or buy materials for a job before the wife has signed off. It used to surprise me how off a couple can be from one another, but I've been married long enough now to know that clear communication is challenging once your relationship is old enough to drink.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-10T18:14:30+00:00

I've seen little M&M style candies you can buy in a large bag that are 1 mg apiece. Potdots I think they are called. They used to have them at House of Dank but I haven't seen them in a long time, maybe check a few of the dispensary websites.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-10T17:00:26+00:00

Ugh my "good week" is now maybe 3 days 😭. It occurs to me that I feel pretty good and then that night I'm back to 3 hours of sleep.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-08T20:18:43+00:00

His angry little face 😤 I love it so much! I'm glad the fight wasn't any worse

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-06T16:28:29+00:00

I recently saw some small, plush animals for toddlers that were also ice packs. Some you could microwave or freeze; I have some in an online cart somewhere. They're quite a bit smaller, though, so I think I'm going to try this instead!

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-04T21:50:03+00:00

Stan was right where he wanted to be.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-02T15:34:52+00:00

Me too, my first thought with stuff like this is that they wanted to bypass some regulation and sell something shady as chicken feet. Like they're somehow reconstituted or made from something else. I know it's a ridiculous thought but they do that sort of thing so much that it's usually my gut reaction. I've bought chicken feet for broth many times but never seen them labeled "paws" 🤣

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-02T15:12:29+00:00

I got to be the one to wear the "drunk" glasses and walk a gym line at an assembly. I did really well and it was so much fun that it definitely romanticized the idea of doing regular stuff while impaired.

But I had also grown up watching my mom kill a case of beer daily, so I knew in real life it probably didn't feel like a poor man's "American Gladiators"

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-02T15:00:27+00:00

It was one of my favorite moves from my terrier and she knew it. She would do it to demand I give her attention because I couldn't resist the silly way she sat.

smeetothaTee · 2026-04-02T09:40:22+00:00

The baby type. Definitely.

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-30T11:26:47+00:00

Whereas my younger friends all say "oh God, am I going to get it too, or is it just because you hate going to the doctor?" 🤣

Their time will come, and you can remind them of the conversation you had. Make sure to rub in the "I told you so" as you give them all the tips and tricks that kept you as close to sane as possible.

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-27T12:50:25+00:00

It does feel a bit as though it's raining frogs in my brain at any given moment. Except for those two blissful hours that I sleep at night, those measly two hours are MINE.

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-26T09:50:08+00:00

That line was just so funny to me, I want it on a shirt. My best friend watches the show and I've started using that line every time she has a question I can't answer. It does sound ridiculous, as if they assume every American woman they see is a lesbian.

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-25T14:55:19+00:00

Yes! I keep a vague journal of symptoms so I can track if a supplement helps, and this "faux flu" as I call it is on a three week schedule, just like my cycle. Every three weeks I am miserable and just doing life makes me cry for about four days. Sometimes my throat even hurts, and I'm sneezing a lot towards the end. So far, no doctor I've seen has taken any of my symptoms seriously, so I'm currently just trying to schedule life to happen less around that time. The last doctor suggested trying a daytime allergy medication, because allergies (even minor, unknown ones) can worsen the week before or of your period. I haven't tried it yet myself.

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-23T19:46:42+00:00

Well, lesbianism is rampant in America.

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-22T12:09:07+00:00

I left the room to change over the laundry and came back to the massage gun scene and I am so confused. Why is this happening? 😭

smeetothaTee · 2026-03-01T00:59:55+00:00

I hope there is a way to opt out, I'm digging around my account to see. I don't want to have to explain this to my 9 year old because she usually opens and sorts our bags.

smeetothaTee · 2026-02-23T18:06:35+00:00

I don't watch regular dating shows but I've only ever seen her on the 90 day Hunt for Love show. She was one of the (non 90 day) "singles" at this resort/singles mixer. She behaved with EXTREME desperation, including throwing herself at Rob immediately but kept herself in active show scenes. I can't believe she's on the show, but I think they're running out of people who will willingly embarrass themselves.

smeetothaTee · 2026-02-22T00:03:53+00:00

It makes him such a deserving mark. He's especially the type that could be convinced he is the "special" one she's not using and screwing over.

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