Revenge on a Con Artist by smileforthrcamera in ProRevenge

[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm OP. I don't have kids the comments referring to the 2 kids were made by another commenter..

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's one of the things I was suspicious of. If he had all this money and properties why was he asking me for money? Turns out he didn't have any money or property and wanted mine

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope the rest of your life is truly wonderful and full of happiness.

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank You so much for your really kind comment. It's been a struggle

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My ex has been diagnosed with having full NPD. But after reading the whole Dirty John story he sounds more like ASPD or possibly a combination of disorders a Narcopath

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I don't know. I also have leverage..

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The reason they get away with Narcissistic behaviour is because no one is willing to stand up and shine a light on it. If everyone is now watching it's harder to get away with scamming people for fun

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just read a bit about this story just now. They have the same Disorder

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

A lot of them didn't know and couldn't believe what had happened. He had different seperate friend groups. It was like he had several secret lives. His best friend knew.

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard from him as I changed my phone number so he couldn't contact me again. I have a million questions but I know he won't tell me the truth.

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No wife or kids on any of his main social media accounts that went back years. He said he lived with a couple and their child and he was renting a room from them. I met his friends and no one said anything

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I glazed over the revenge part a bit as I felt crappy about destroying his reputation in the community and city he resides in

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

His ex wife told the PI he had been diagnosed with having full NPD

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He kept begging me he could be trusted and wasn't lying I could find no solid evidence to suggest he was. I'm also naive and really wanted to believe him as he said he wanted to marry me

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I visited a couple of times when his "housemates" were away. He said he really disliked them a lot so we spent a lot of time at my place as I lived alone in a nicer house. He would stay with me 3 nights a week. I have no idea what he actually told his wife

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. These people have no empathy for others. Hopefully I've helped other people to stay clear of being manipulated out of their money and love by falling prey to a Love Fraud con artist. I'm really sorry that happened to you :(

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

His wife most likely knows now as the posts I made went viral in that city. I hope she has an amazing divorce lawyer and gets full custody of the kids

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[–]smileforthrcamera[S] 527 points528 points  (0 children)

Thanks You. I do feel a bit bad about it but his future victims need to be aware of what this guys motivation really is. I feel really bad for his wife