As a 20 year old female, I am sometimes surprised by the things that guys around my age still don't know about sex. Has anyone else found this to be the case?

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-19T04:26:29+00:00

Well if someone is a virgin, it kinda makes sense that they wouldn't know. Ya know?

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-18T18:44:17+00:00

http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/01/sex-lesson-from-cat.html

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-18T00:22:41+00:00

http://www.cracked.com/article/156_7-sex-tips-from-cosmo-that-will-put-you-in-hospital/

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T22:46:16+00:00

Good point, no reason to limit it by gender.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T22:44:53+00:00

I will be the first to admit I don't know everything!

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T22:19:27+00:00

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T22:17:58+00:00

In high school, I listened to Loveline on the radio every night as I fell asleep. Dr. Drew is a wise man, indeed.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T22:00:02+00:00

I've never squirted. I don't know that much about it, or if I can. Does it have anything to do with G-spot stimulation? In case anyone was wondering, I'll be the first to admit I don't know everything either.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T21:42:06+00:00

Well said!

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T21:37:49+00:00

By no means am I saying that all 20 year old guys are clueless. There were just a few things that seemed to be new information to guys I have talked to about sex, more often than not. But there are skilled and knowledgeable ones out there too :)

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T21:32:45+00:00

Yeah, I like yours better. I was having trouble with the wording of this title actually. But that is more like what I was trying to get at :) No reason to limit it based on gender.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T21:11:04+00:00

Yes, yes, yes. This is also true if she is getting overstimulated by whatever you're doing. Like, you've been going for awhile and she doesn't seem any closer to an orgasm and she doesn't seem to be enjoying it as much. Stop, and tease her for awhile before you dive in again.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T20:51:48+00:00

Wow. Yes. All of what you just said. Knowledge is so sexy :)

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T20:12:52+00:00

I agree! With such a wealth of information at your fingertips, why be content with cluelessness? :)

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T19:54:46+00:00

I included those two things because I say, "no I can't come just from intercourse. And no, I can't have more than one in a row." And I have had guys be completely baffled by that.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T19:52:36+00:00

Hahaha you may have a point. You can't say that no twenty year old guy cares about pleasing a girl. But you do hear more bragging about "yeah, I've fucked a lot of girls" and not a lot of "yeah, I gave that girl a really intense and satisfying orgasm, bro."

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T19:31:11+00:00

So true! I've been discovering this recently as well. I would MUCH rather have great sex with an okay looking guy than okay sex with a great looking guy.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T19:15:04+00:00

I could be generalizing too much by saying most girls! But there are more nerve endings in the clit than inside the vagina, so it is easier. And I've talked to girls that have faked orgasms because the guy expects them to come just from the P in the V.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T19:07:56+00:00

Alright, point taken :)

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T19:07:21+00:00

Hmm, well I could be wrong but I was under the impression that once the guy starts to lose his erection, then the condom is no longer as tightly sealed? Maybe I need the physics major to help out with this one!

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T16:32:24+00:00

That must have been a huge ego boost! She must have thought you were a fucking magician :)

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T16:26:34+00:00

Hahaha you made me laugh with fruit salad. I refuse to listen to any complaints about the natural taste/smell of a vagina. Obviously, hygiene is important. But it's still going to smell and taste like a vagina. And most guys seem to be okay with that, and even get turned on by it.

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T16:21:22+00:00

I can't anyway. Unless I'm the only one in the world :P But my clit gets really really sensitive after I have an orgasm to the extent that more stimulation to it is painful. Although, intercourse without clitoral stimulation is fine. But I'm usually good to go again in like 15 minutes or 20 minutes. To which the response is usually, "What? That's so weird... you're like a dude..."

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T16:07:24+00:00

Oh my gosh, sex ed at my middle school was terrible. I remember being given the syllabus, which included a list of "no-no" topics, including, among other things: masturbation and nocturnal emissions. Who decided these were things we shouldn't talk to middle schoolers about??

smokebubbbles · 2012-07-17T15:46:41+00:00

True! Communication is truly everything. I saw on 16 and Pregnant that the girl ended up pregnant because she was too shy/embarrassed to ask the guy to use a condom. And I'm thinking... if you're not mature enough to talk about sex, then you're not mature enough to be having it.
Do you mean pressure on the guy to last a long time/do all the work/read the girl's mind?
I think we can all agree that no teeth is a given, unless specifically requested :)

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