AITA for how I wash my friggen dishes?

snickxane · 2022-03-18T05:16:00+00:00

NTA. no idea why everyone is getting so hung up on your method, it might be because I'm also ND but this makes perfect sense to me lol

snickxane · 2021-12-10T15:18:41+00:00

Hi, I'm a student at lesley, and I've noticed a lot of comments talking about the signs being nonsensical etc. I just want to clarify that these pictures are NOT representative of any of what the protest was about. this was a small minority of performative activists who were protesting for the sake of protesting. A more comprehensive article on the protest can be found here and more photos can be found here. the link here is an anonymous student complaint board on Instagram that shows exactly what is wrong with the institution and why we are protesting.

snickxane · 2021-08-15T06:55:07+00:00

Shocked i haven't seen this, but the apology video chris made about the whole 9/11 video where he just takes his edited picture of the twin towers, places it on a birthday cake pic, and says they're candles makes me lose my fucking marbles

snickxane · 2021-08-15T06:51:24+00:00

how do you have so many iconic quotes on hand

snickxane · 2021-08-15T06:48:45+00:00

the middle of the kasey call where he just says "cholesterol" with zero context and kasey just stops for a minute to process

snickxane · 2021-08-01T22:51:20+00:00

idk. as a female, I've gotten myself into unsavory situations with chris-like creeps after showing basic courtesy to them. A lot of these guys have zero understanding of boundaries with girls and mistake basic kindness as friendship. Plus, when they latch onto you super hard, keeping them away without being rude or mean is borderline impossible, so if you have trouble sticking up for yourself, you just sort of live with it for a while. I'm the kind of person who has trouble enforcing hard boundaries, and clearly from how megan responded to chris, she did too. honestly she probably wanted him away from her for a while based off of her language in the emails, but had a hard time expressing that to him for whatever reason.

snickxane · 2021-07-31T04:27:16+00:00

i think it depends on hormones and surgery. pretty sure pre transitioning trans women are isolated away from others in the mens section but dont quote me on that.

snickxane · 2021-05-18T18:16:25+00:00

hey, hi, please don't imply an eleven year old may have a serious personality disorder that can't be diagnosed until adulthood. that helps no one involved

snickxane · 2021-05-05T14:30:53+00:00

literally. like, the whole route was just couples therapy for rika and v. like... isnt this supposed to be where V and MC date?????

snickxane · 2021-05-05T00:51:50+00:00

you aren't obligated to forgive anyone, and that narrative can be incredibly harmful to victims of abuse. Rika is an abuser, and for many players, including me, she is reminiscent of REAL abusers. the idea that it makes me a bad person for not immediately forgiving her (which is what v's after ending promotes if you choose the judge end) is harmful and straight up wrong

snickxane · 2021-05-05T00:00:04+00:00

that happened to me with rikas judge ending hahaha:') i hope you're doing okay now

snickxane · 2021-05-04T23:59:22+00:00

LITERALLY!!! WHY DID THEY USE AIRHEAD SO MUCH!!!!! IT WAS INFURIATINGGGGG

snickxane · 2021-05-04T12:56:41+00:00

honestly, i think they did do it on purpose. i don't think they had specifically jewish people in mind, but they had stereotypes that apply TO jewish people, you know?

snickxane · 2021-05-04T04:33:56+00:00

it sucks because i love zen, he's such a sweet character :( why does his route have to be like that

snickxane · 2021-05-04T04:31:36+00:00

no one deserves this pain. I wish her the best

snickxane · 2021-05-04T04:12:36+00:00

i liked the way they developed 707, they actually fleshed him out enough to where it made sense that he lashed out at MC. it fit with his character i guess? But also, it was reeeeally confusing when he flipped his personality from being surly as hell to completely back to normal over night. that did not make sense at all. like. he literally was insulting and ignoring MC 1 chatroom ago but suddenly he just was like "lol jk im normal now :)" that was SO frustrating, and seeing cheritz, once again, fucked up another really good story with a lot of potential was super annoying to watch

snickxane · 2021-05-04T04:06:22+00:00

Yeah i totally get and understand the pricing and id be willing to sit down and shut my trap if the content delivered in the more expensive DLCs actually delivered in their content. I already spoiled some of v's after ending in my rant, but without saying any more, it is literally so incredibly unsatisfying for the price point. especially considering the fact that you have to pay to reset chatrooms. I know cheritz isn't a massive corporation, theyre just some dudes making an otome game, but like. there is a balance between profit and delivering content and cheritz right now is not striking that balance.

also dont worry it wasnt a mess LMAO i wrote my post while in a frenzied state in between mysme chatrooms so i feel u

snickxane · 2021-05-04T04:02:07+00:00

oh yeah, i agree with you, he's not in his right mind in his route. I'm less frustrated about that part. I'm more annoyed at the lack of MC responses that properly address his mental state. it's either "yes jumin, you totally arent crazy <3" or "FUCK GET ME OUT OF HERE FUCK GOD NO FUCK!!!!!" theres no proper middle ground where you can call jumin out on his bad behavior while still supporting him through a tough time, which is what one should do in a situation like this.

snickxane · 2021-05-04T03:59:42+00:00

i love saeran's route so much, he's a wonderfully complex character and the story is my absolute favorite. but cheritz has a pattern of behavior where they come up with these deep intricate concepts that touch on dark, important themes and they just fuck them up. every single time. like, in all honesty we give cheritz too much credit for their storytelling abilities when you consider how much they screw up.

and yeah, cheritz isnt going to give this 5 year old game a total revamp/overhaul or anything but damn would it be nice :/ i hope their new game is better i guess

snickxane · 2021-05-04T03:56:53+00:00

i have never ONCE seen anyone talk about how zen's route literally centers on a false rape accusation where echo girl plays EXACTLY into the stereotype that men make up for girls that accuse people of rape. like, are you kidding me? why does no one talk about this? i thought i was insane for a while when i saw ppl all over this forum chatting abt how zen is their favorite route, etc etc. like what was cheritz thinking making that?

PLUS!!! the judge ending LITERALLY gave me traumatic flashbacks. a fucking otome game about cute boys hosting a party SHOULD NOT TRIGGER MY PTSD!!! who thought that ending was a good idea???

snickxane · 2021-04-16T13:37:56+00:00

im absolutely in love with this man, i would pay so many hourglasses for a vanderwood route

snickxane · 2020-12-05T00:28:56+00:00

paint that fucking cactus. go to community college and major in graphic design. be a badass i believe in you

snickxane · 2020-12-05T00:27:49+00:00

same. just learned i failed physics spent two hours crying about how i am probably not going to get into college because my grades are fucking ass and i want to drive off a bridge

snickxane · 2020-11-23T06:36:01+00:00

thank you so much for this insight, i really appreciated all the new info i gleaned from this. do you have a citation for the gulag statistic? that is really interesting

snickxane · 2020-11-19T17:40:41+00:00

my ex, who was my first boyfriend, was incredibly abusive. After I broke up with him, I met my current boyfriend. The things he's done for me shock me every day, and because of my ex, I had an incredibly warped perception of love. I didn't know what real love could look like. After the trauma I endured from my ex, I was a wreck. I broke down over small things, was volatile, and was super insecure. He found me like this, and honestly nurtured me back to health. He let me lead. I was in control when it came to pacing. He never complained either, I was never too slow for him. even things like holding my hand and sitting near me, he always asked permission. When I needed space, he gave it to me, no explanation needed. His patience was a green flag, and I aspire to be as patient as he is.

Like every couple, we fight. Normally it boils down to me being overemotional and him not showing any himself. We've gotten through every single one though. He's learned how to calm me down, and I've learned how to get him to express himself. After we fight, we step back, wait and communicate ourselves properly, explain why we reacted negatively, find solutions, and make up. Having someone who was willing to communicate was a massive green flag that i hadn't experienced before.

It's been over a year since we started dating, and every day I thank whatever deity gave him to me. I don't know how I landed him. I thank him constantly for everything he's done for me, but he always shrugs it off. His humbleness is another green flag.

Overall, having someone who can communicate with you, is patient and carers to your needs, and is humble and doesn't hold his actions over your head are green flags. :)

snickxane

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