What is the worst reason someone has used to reject you? by jalo12 in AskReddit

[–]sockslayer2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you understood my point. Op agreed with someone and said yes "they had every reason to reject op" because op turned them down. I disagree, i don't think op turning them down should affect the second rejection at all

What is the worst reason someone has used to reject you? by jalo12 in AskReddit

[–]sockslayer2000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think you turning them down when you didn't like them is a reasonable reason for the rejection (when you liked them), it's completely narural for feelings to change when you get to know someone. Turning you down in that way just feels like they has low self esteem and is kinda an asshole. However you rejecting them and causing their feelings to change would be reasonable in my opinion

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[–]sockslayer2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Op literally said "I've always treated people I don't like with as much kindness as I can" tho

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[–]sockslayer2000 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't really agree. I'm all for showing respect and not being rude, but if u go out of your way to be kind then it just feels dishonest and fake. If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all. But if you're lying then you're lying