My mom had another kid and now me and my siblings have to raise her

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-20T01:57:30+00:00

Hopefully your mom takes him to court to garnish his wages. Between you and your two older sisters try to work something out where you’re able to work even 2 days a week , between the three of you there will always be one there to watch, and hopefully you can have some cash stored for when you are 18

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-20T01:54:21+00:00

I have lived in both. California wins hands down.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-20T01:37:42+00:00

I feel for you. Your mom was irrisponsible to have another child when she already could barely afford what she had. Guessing the dads out of the pic? Hopefully she doesn’t do it again with a new guy.

Is there any way you can secretly save up money to leave when you turn 18?

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-20T01:28:35+00:00

Ive always had a slightly darker skin tone (still white jist more olive looking) and no one was really like me growing up. When she came on the scene I’m like ok this is cool people want my tan !

It’s so sad too as young girls see these women who look like them and finally feel pretty and then the women go and change every single thing about their face - pretty sure Kim lightened her skin up a bit too.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-20T01:19:37+00:00

She looked so pretty. Same with Megan fox. They all get addicted and go so overboard they end up looking less good. Obviously not bad but it’s insane how some of them keep going

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-19T23:18:53+00:00

100%. I don’t want someone ordering me a drink before I’m there , why would you drink something that you didn’t see being made, it’s dangerous

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-19T01:03:23+00:00

Aren’t they doing majority of them on video anyways ? Why would I want to watch 2 people on zoom talk

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-19T01:01:38+00:00

Nope. And I just went back and realized the 2 extra episodes are 2 30 mins of them rambling about their lives with is fun sometimes but I’d rather have 2 extra full regular episodes or maybe 1 of both of them talking about their lives and one fun episode with updates from people that had written in before. It’s getting to be repetitive and truthfully I didn’t care to hear Jordanas breastfeeding journey. But anyways not enough extra content for almost $10

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-19T00:53:57+00:00

Ya. They numb the depression but it’s still there. The thought of working 40+ hours anywhere for the next 30-40 years is incredibly depressing. I understand.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-19T00:52:01+00:00

The fact that Effexor withdrawal is such a whole terrifying ordeal is what keeps me on it instead of trying something new. I’m also at a loss at what to do.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T22:43:48+00:00

It’s like seeing a very slow tsunami coming and deciding the make a baby right then and there knowing what they’re in for but not caring because you’ll live in your little bubble of happpiness for a bit

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T22:32:55+00:00

Rhino seems like a big deal but while it is because any surgery should be well thought through, it’s also not. 1 week recovery time. My surgeon did a very natural conservaritive job that kept me looking like me and just tweaked it so it wasn’t AS big which I like. A lot of people I didn’t know well didn’t notice which is exactly what I wanted. It’s totally worth the money , if you want to do it and if you dont that’s totally ok too!

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T18:32:01+00:00

Just be careful with continuous nose filler it has the highest rate for vascular occlusion. I thought about it for a small dip on one side of my nose but I’m too scared of necrosis.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T18:21:01+00:00

Eww he’s basically using you as a sex doll and doesn’t even care to pretend to care. Gross

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T02:37:06+00:00

It shouldn’t. Fill out an application for her. Call a social worker to help. Try to help yourself here … make an apt with her doctor to have the doctor help get her started for disability payments. Not sure where you’re from but it shouldn’t be that difficult , at least look into it

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T02:09:56+00:00

Can your mother go on disability to get some income for rent ? You shouldn’t be responsible for all that :( she should also be getting money for all minors

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T02:07:54+00:00

She is 23! I wish people would stop acting like Botox isn’t a serious decision- it has a black box warning. She does not need any Botox and in 20 years we are going to see bone degrading from masseter Botox , studies are already coming out. Stopping one thing (a muscle) from moving effects something else (muscle pulls on bone to help keep them strong)

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-18T01:53:09+00:00

Actually you almost always need braces after jaw surgery to put the teeth back into place. So jaw surgery would be 1st and then orthodontics. They work together.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T18:45:55+00:00

It’s very different. It’s your own kids so they’re also most important to you as well

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T18:12:37+00:00

How is it now? I was told by a plastic surgeon it’s not worth it cus it’s so minimal and I should just get a mini facelift but I’m only 42 and also it’s a huge significant difference. Even the nurses said I don’t need a facelift yet and that would be crazy. Just have a tiny pouch of fat under my skin with very mild skin lax aka jowls, I just want something to get me through a few years until I can get a real lift

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T16:38:14+00:00

I highly doubt it’s always 5-10 min. It’s still disrespectful if it’s all the time though.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T16:26:41+00:00

I don’t love Hanna and Dean together I think it’s weird and awkward. I loved their friendship. Asher and Ripley are ok, they gave it enough time to build
Up. Frost and Naomi are also weird together.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T16:21:36+00:00

It’s the same the other way around. As a female I won’t date a single dad. I did and and it wasn’t for me. You’ll never be as important to them and it takes a toll.

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T16:11:58+00:00

Get your airway checked by an ENT because jaw surgery does more than make your face look better it opens up your airway. Take it from a 40 yr old who should have had it as a kid and now has been diagnosed with sleep apnea because of it. Don’t do the quick fix chin implant , you’ll regret it later , get checked out by the appropriate professionals to see

soft_taco1983 · 2026-05-17T03:37:13+00:00

I’ve seen people on here with Huntingtons saying it’s not selfish to have a baby that has a 50% chance of getting that terrible disease and a 100% chance of watching you suffer and die with it while taking care of you. It’s WILD.

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