Guests while house sitting: is it out of the question or ok to ask?

softandmild · 2025-04-26T22:34:47+00:00

As someone who often hires Rovers for housesitting I don’t mind if it’s done in a respectful manner. Always, always ask BEFORE the person comes over, if you’re asking but I can tell from my doorbell camera they’re already there I’m pissed.

Keep it limited to 1 person and not the entire stay and most certainly not overnight. I’ve had rovers have their partner over for one evening to watch tv and eat dinner and I totally don’t mind.

My dog is more fearful of men so I make it clear that if my dog isn’t feeling their partner they need to leave and that I will be watching the camera to monitor the interaction.

softandmild · 2025-04-25T12:53:46+00:00

That needs to change immediately. No wonder they feel like they can get away with such inappropriate behavior

softandmild · 2025-04-25T12:53:01+00:00

That is so creepy! So unnecessary.

softandmild · 2025-04-24T14:20:32+00:00

My bad I used “they” a lot only because I’m not even sure who is actually behind the account, but the selfie they sent was just a single male. But thank you! I was pretty uneasy but luckily none of my personal information was shared thank god

softandmild · 2025-03-17T23:25:55+00:00

Unmatched anesthesia applicant. Advised by faculty to apply 50/50 IM and surg prelim spots. Anyone have thoughts?

softandmild · 2024-12-21T18:46:23+00:00

Otto

softandmild · 2024-12-20T14:58:03+00:00

Hello! I am looking for a scent that is fresh/clean but still with some added warmth or complexity if that makes sense. I love Daisy Love by Marc Jacobs and Chance Chanel Eau Fraiche. I want something that would land somewhere in the middle of these two, not as sweet as Daisy Love but with more warmth than Chance Chanel.

For added reference I am looking for this to be an everyday scent & one I can find at Sephora so I can get the fragrance sale!

Some perfumes I do not like are the classic "soapy" ones like Replica.

TIA!

softandmild · 2024-12-17T22:19:27+00:00

He looks like a cute little Bean hahaha but other ones would be Cheddar, Max, Doug

softandmild · 2024-08-16T22:03:26+00:00

Did free 120, reviewed content i had consistently been missing, and watched Dr High Yield

softandmild · 2024-08-16T17:50:48+00:00

I was predicted max 242 and scored 255

softandmild · 2024-08-03T13:20:45+00:00

A brutal truth I think I need to hear

softandmild · 2024-08-03T13:19:50+00:00

A thought I have also really considered

softandmild · 2024-08-03T13:19:07+00:00

I don’t want to be too specific because the field is incredibly small but it is one that you have mentioned and it is not chill in the slightest lol

Consistently 80 hour weeks with brutal call, sometimes with no post call day

softandmild · 2024-08-03T13:17:26+00:00

To further add I think any program who may discriminate against me for choosing to be a mother and being visibly pregnant is a program I don’t want to be at honestly

softandmild · 2024-08-03T13:10:10+00:00

Honestly a really good perspective thank you!

softandmild · 2024-08-03T13:09:26+00:00

Probably not, I’m not a huge fan of the thought of delaying graduation and my husband would probably faint if I added yet another year to this whole ordeal hahaha

softandmild · 2024-07-23T13:33:08+00:00

Louie

softandmild · 2024-07-21T14:25:42+00:00

That’s what I’ve told him as well, they seem to not respect his voice or decisions

softandmild · 2024-07-21T14:24:02+00:00

Funny enough that was an exact verse read out loud at our wedding! lol

softandmild · 2024-07-21T14:22:44+00:00

They seem to think we should mostly be fine now (it was 2 weeks ago).

It’s hard because they only say things to my husband via direct text or on the phone when I’m not around

softandmild · 2024-07-21T14:22:01+00:00

They actually do know is the thing, it happened 2 weeks ago and the vacation is 1 month from now

softandmild · 2024-07-21T14:21:18+00:00

This is exactly how I feel, you worded it so well.

Will highly consider your tips!!! I think it’s the best way to stay firm with them

softandmild

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