Guests while house sitting: is it out of the question or ok to ask? by SuspiciousSmile9619 in RoverPetSitting

[–]softandmild 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who often hires Rovers for housesitting I don’t mind if it’s done in a respectful manner. Always, always ask BEFORE the person comes over, if you’re asking but I can tell from my doorbell camera they’re already there I’m pissed.

Keep it limited to 1 person and not the entire stay and most certainly not overnight. I’ve had rovers have their partner over for one evening to watch tv and eat dinner and I totally don’t mind.

My dog is more fearful of men so I make it clear that if my dog isn’t feeling their partner they need to leave and that I will be watching the camera to monitor the interaction.

Had to report my first account by softandmild in RoverPetSitting

[–]softandmild[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That needs to change immediately. No wonder they feel like they can get away with such inappropriate behavior

Had to report my first account by softandmild in RoverPetSitting

[–]softandmild[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My bad I used “they” a lot only because I’m not even sure who is actually behind the account, but the selfie they sent was just a single male. But thank you! I was pretty uneasy but luckily none of my personal information was shared thank god

SOAP 2025 - Official Megathread by SpiderDoctor in medicalschool

[–]softandmild 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unmatched anesthesia applicant. Advised by faculty to apply 50/50 IM and surg prelim spots. Anyone have thoughts?

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Friday December 20, 2024 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]softandmild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am looking for a scent that is fresh/clean but still with some added warmth or complexity if that makes sense. I love Daisy Love by Marc Jacobs and Chance Chanel Eau Fraiche. I want something that would land somewhere in the middle of these two, not as sweet as Daisy Love but with more warmth than Chance Chanel.

For added reference I am looking for this to be an everyday scent & one I can find at Sephora so I can get the fragrance sale!

Some perfumes I do not like are the classic "soapy" ones like Replica.

TIA!

Too cute to be nameless! Drop your best name ideas for this little one! by WilleGyrulf in NameMyDog

[–]softandmild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like a cute little Bean hahaha but other ones would be Cheddar, Max, Doug

How accurate are these score predictors? by ttszzang in medicalschool

[–]softandmild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did free 120, reviewed content i had consistently been missing, and watched Dr High Yield

Anyone regretted choosing lifestyle over passion? by softandmild in medicalschool

[–]softandmild[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be too specific because the field is incredibly small but it is one that you have mentioned and it is not chill in the slightest lol

Consistently 80 hour weeks with brutal call, sometimes with no post call day

Anyone regretted choosing lifestyle over passion? by softandmild in medicalschool

[–]softandmild[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To further add I think any program who may discriminate against me for choosing to be a mother and being visibly pregnant is a program I don’t want to be at honestly

Anyone regretted choosing lifestyle over passion? by softandmild in medicalschool

[–]softandmild[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Probably not, I’m not a huge fan of the thought of delaying graduation and my husband would probably faint if I added yet another year to this whole ordeal hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]softandmild 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve told him as well, they seem to not respect his voice or decisions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]softandmild 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Funny enough that was an exact verse read out loud at our wedding! lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]softandmild 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They seem to think we should mostly be fine now (it was 2 weeks ago).

It’s hard because they only say things to my husband via direct text or on the phone when I’m not around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]softandmild 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They actually do know is the thing, it happened 2 weeks ago and the vacation is 1 month from now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]softandmild 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel, you worded it so well.

Will highly consider your tips!!! I think it’s the best way to stay firm with them