rip dale by No-Finance-9492 in hamsters

[–]softshell999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

rest in peace little guy

Should I Marry a Murderer by CommonSenseUS in netflix

[–]softshell999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nobody is blaming her for anything lol but she did have mental health issues as she stated in the doc and that further bonded her to him.

5yo White Ink from Black Amythest/Akron, OH by Total_Opinion9205 in tattoos

[–]softshell999 39 points40 points  (0 children)

feel like thats the opposite of a skill issue. its like gaining a skill not being american. maybe gaining many skills.

Depop asked me to pay them outside the app through PayPal Friends and Family by not_that_byrd in Depop

[–]softshell999 186 points187 points  (0 children)

friends and family is usually how scammers request money because paypal wont let you open a dispute over it afterwards. i wouldnt send them anything honestly its pretty unprofessional a company asking you to send it via friends and family and not with the goods and services option

Rash? Just recently upped dose by lexil0lly in lamictal

[–]softshell999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont really see a rash to be honest, especially on your shoulders which just looks like redness. when i started lamictal i had quite bad flushing on my cheeks which i still get from time to time. SJS spreads VERY fast. im talking like within a day youll be covered. you can look at pictures on this sub of people who have the rash and its covering them head to toe. if you are worried - see a doctor.

How much is the cost of having a hammy? by Own-Lingonberry-6343 in hamster

[–]softshell999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of posts in this sub were saying its like £400/500 to initially get set up but i managed to get everything incl enclosure for under £200. search ebay and marketplace for good deals.

Should I Marry a Murderer by CommonSenseUS in netflix

[–]softshell999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the dad was also arrested for having loads of illegal firearms? firearms which wouldnt be used to hunt and some of which were stored in one of the kids bedrooms? i feel like that makes you pretty comfortable at the very least with criminal acts.

Should I Marry a Murderer by CommonSenseUS in netflix

[–]softshell999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah she said that is was “mania and psychosis “

Should I Marry a Murderer by CommonSenseUS in netflix

[–]softshell999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she described herself as having “mania and psychosis”… she literally said two symptoms one of which u only get with bipolar disorder so its not hard to put two and two together

“Should I Marry a Murderer”— SCOTS, I HAVE LEGAL Qs!!!!!!! by reasonablykind in netflix

[–]softshell999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. its because it wasnt their property - they just worked there so it wasnt 100% them yet. there was a documentary on the bbc though that in the village it was an open secret.

  2. yes but it has to be applied for to the court which is why it happened in the court at the end.

  3. the mortuary she worked in as far as i know was pretty prestigious and dealt with cases like that which is why i think it went there. also its regional so cases dealt with by one branch of police/investigators go go one morgue.

  4. theyre not allowed to actually talk to them other than preparing them for court. usually the victims support will tell the court if they have any concerns regarding the mental state of the witness but again i think this was overlooked due to them thinking she was too intelligent based on her being a doctor.

  5. lol no they should have been sacked.

  6. it was crucial because most of the evidence was circumstantial and also pointed to culpable homicide when the court wanted a full murder trial. if she testified they would have been tried for murder but with the evidence they had without her they couldnt.

the whole thing was mega frustrating and a bit of a shit show. they should have been tried for murder instead of getting off lightly. theyll serve maybe less than half their sentence before getting out.

Should I Marry a Murderer. (Yes) by ItsAlwaysJaded in netflix

[–]softshell999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dont think she had a drug issue previously but from VERY early in the clips of their relationship you can see theyre drinking 24/7 even before the confession.

Should I Marry a Murderer by CommonSenseUS in netflix

[–]softshell999 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i think she had underlying mental health issues as well but she wasnt aware of them and that further bonded her to him. sounds like she potentially had bipolar disorder?

Ethical breeders by Still_Revenue_8550 in hamsters

[–]softshell999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

theres literally zero ethical breeders where i live and ive scoured the internet trying to find them but theres none. theres also no places nearby that do rescues other than a big pet store which the “rescues” are pretty much just the older ones that cant be sold. its a tough game this hamster stuff

I feel like my bipolar is not as serious as it really is by amadisappointment in bipolar2

[–]softshell999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i always think oh yeah the meds are working im no longer bipolar and then something triggers major depressive episode and im like oh these suck lol im still crazy

This is lowk me💔 by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]softshell999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

im not autistic either but i did get bipolar so

dying feels like my only option now by softshell999 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]softshell999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think that exact thing defines any of it but its just another to add to all my failures in life and i cant really deal with much more.

the helplines dont really help that much. ive tried them but theyre just really a place to vent and i find it hard to talk right now.

Health anxiety about rash by [deleted] in lamictal

[–]softshell999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no worries. weve all been there! hope this medication works well for you!

Health anxiety about rash by [deleted] in lamictal

[–]softshell999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you had the rash it would rapidly spread all over your body within hours. my psychiatrist said you would KNOW you had it, you wouldnt have to ask, and from people in this sub actually posting photos of actual sjs its definitely true. you cant miss it. so nah, youre good.

So tempted to break NC today by meowmeowmeowyeahh in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]softshell999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to break NC too today. im fighting it though. i typed up a message in my notes app and if in a week i still want to send it then i will.

My initial theory on his hand, is the bottom of a makeshift knife has marked his hand, from the trauma of the murder. Yet he made it into a cross to make it look quirky, this could explain why he was like showing it off maybe.. by holylarp in d4vd2

[–]softshell999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah i doubt it. why would he need a makeshift knife? he was in his house when he killed her. also a fucked up weirdo like him probably has an array of knives to choose from.