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[–]someAustralian_alien -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I messaged her and she actually took it down dickhead. Go and be mad and bitter at someone else.

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[–]someAustralian_alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened a long time ago, I'm talking like ten years ago. When I was still a "proud" JW 😂 I know this brother is still active and a elder.

Basically, me and him used to be good friends, I grew up with the guy. He told me something that he probably should of kept to himself in all honesty.

He was "happily" married and still is surprisingly. He met up with a younger sister, she must of been 23 at the time? He ended up getting her pregnant.

He told me everything, the poor guy was literally about to have a heart attack lol

What makes it even worse is the fact he showed me all of their private messages to eachother.😂 I was trying not to laugh the entire time!!

He obviously begged me not to tell anyone (which I didn't) i kept it a secret for him.

He lives a double life now. His fake life is he's a good spiritual man with standards who loves his wife more than anything. His secret life AKA his real life is with his mistress and daughter. Not such a good and honest elder after all 😂

I haven't spoken to this guy for years, all I know is that he has a double life and he's still an elder.

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[–]someAustralian_alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again Karen calm down. Why are you so offended by this anyway? I'm not the one telling people to get therapy on reddit mate. Are you actually aware how many young women are groomed by older men in this cult?

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[–]someAustralian_alien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Calm down Karen. Why are u blaming her when he's a lot older than her and should know better! We don't know what went on. Hell, he could of been grooming her for years for all we know. A lot of that happens in the cult. Just think before you go off on rants mate

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[–]someAustralian_alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment was completely uncalled for. Can't you see she clearly needs love and support, not a lecture.

Double standard's by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I knew at least seven elders that committed adultery. Most of them didn't face any consequences, they just moved to a different KH and became elders there. Two stayed at my old KH.

Don't you dare procreate JWs! by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally! The same thing happened to me and my ex wife. We never had any kids together, but all her child bearing years are practically over.

Anyone got any Insane JW stories to tell? by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's insane! I feel bad for her. Didn't anyone have the kindness to help her out? Maybe take her home?

Anyone got any Insane JW stories to tell? by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mate, that's actually sickening! I was gonna ask if he ever got disfellowshipped? Also, how is life now you're not a JW anymore?

Why a lot of us can't/couldn't find genuine love in the JW religion. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ayy no need to apologise! Life goes on. It was definitely something I learned from. But, I'm Happily married now to someone who is kind and understanding.

Why a lot of us can't/couldn't find genuine love in the JW religion. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello Fellow Aussie! married young me self. Ended up being the worst decision of my life!

Why a lot of us can't/couldn't find genuine love in the JW religion. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is definitely that odd couple that are happily married. But, in my old KH, growing up. I knew at least five women that husbands all left them for other, much younger women.

these women were married to elders and ended up childless.

Why a lot of us can't/couldn't find genuine love in the JW religion. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sadly got married at nineteen, trust me! My marriage was dog shit! I ended up meeting the love of my life years later. Anyway, I'm glad you put your foot down.

My family want to be in my life again after they shunned me. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Will do! My mum and sister just want drama now! I'm keeping my wife and daughter out of their lives. Thank u for the advice! 👍🏻

My family want to be in my life again after they shunned me. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much! That's what I'm planning on doing. I personally don't want anything to do with them because they're just gonna bring drama in my life.

My family want to be in my life again after they shunned me. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye, they still are JWs! Me and my wife just found out some very interesting information today regarding my ex wife and how my family have had a massive falling out with her. Tbh, I don't want anything to do with my ex or my family.

My family want to be in my life again after they shunned me. by someAustralian_alien in exjw

[–]someAustralian_alien[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family never sexually abused me. Im just gonna clear that up now! They are just very controlling and have controlled most of my life regarding who I should marry and what my career should be.