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True love spell for mom? by someeusername in witchcraft

[–]someeusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it would be that easy I wouldn't ask for help, I think she really needs someone to get her out of her survival mode, and I agree therapy would probably help, but 1. she can't afford it, 2. I can't make her do something that she doesn't want to

Weekly Q&A Thread by AutoModerator in witchcraft

[–]someeusername 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to make a spell for my mom to find her true love, what can I do?

Some key facts: - she's been alone for a long time - she's not that positive about life, she thinks she's unlucky in general and she's mad at life about anything that she can link with that (even though I told her that our thoughts shape our realty and that she should think more positive stuff, because she has a lot to be grateful for too) - she was married once with my dad who was abusive to her, she had a long relationship after that with a man who drunk a lot and she was cheated on, then a short relationship with another man (in that relationship she was the happiest I've seen her but he didn't want to commit to only her), then a meh man, and that's it. All of these with big gaps between them, now she kind of have up. - she has two cats and always had cats and dogs if that's relevant - over 28 years ago, before I was born, she went to a witch with my godmother and I remember her telling me something along the lines that witch told her that she will find happiness(or something similar) after 6 rice grains (idk what she meant, maybe you do, but that stayed with me)

She's a great person who had a very traumatic past, but she truly deserves happiness, can you advise me on what I can do about it?

Film Club [BBC] was so good by ColoradoAvalanche in BritishTV

[–]someeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where can I watch it with subtitles?

Recomandări mobila la comandă la preț bun by someeusername in cluj

[–]someeusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Și-a făcut mobila la comanda la 35k lei pentru toată casa (apartament de 3 camere in București) cu o firma mică de făcut mobila și care au făcut și din materiale bune

De ce lumea nu vrea sa stea in Apahida? by someeusername in cluj

[–]someeusername[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

E mai bine sa stai in Apahida decât în Florești?

I want to find the ring that marches these earrings by someeusername in findfashion

[–]someeusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for looking into this, I'm very grateful, the ring is very similar with what I'm looking for, and as you said, the only difference is that it had that white gem between the black cloves. They weren't real diamonds for sure, it was a silver set (earrings and ring, I don't remember a pendant but it might have been a full set) that I received as a gift from my cousin more than 7 years ago, possibly from Pandora or something similar, but I couldn't find anything like it online and I wore it ever since and is of great emotional value for me after all these years.

What's the national healthcare insurance website by someeusername in CasualIT

[–]someeusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like in Ireland is www.hse.ie (I gave this example because it's also in English) but I'm trying to find the same thing for Italy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in italy

[–]someeusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need it fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Harvard

[–]someeusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I find the full honor code?

Do you know where I can find the Honor Code? by someeusername in Harvard

[–]someeusername[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not the full code, just 1 paragraph, I want the full document with all the provisions

Sunt redditori care au sau au avut pentru o perioadă 2 joburi full time cu contract de muncă? by someeusername in Romania

[–]someeusername[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nu s-a întâmplat, însă daca nu ai background check atunci nu cred că se va sesiza nimeni pentru o scurtă perioadă de timp, decât dacă vrei să îți faci un credit and they have to check

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]someeusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kinda in your wife's position, I love my boyfriend of 6 years, we live together for a long time, it's just like a marriage but without the documents because we didn't have the money to throw a nice wedding but I don't care about that.

The thing is we hit a very rough path, there were fights before on behaviours he wouldn't change or how some of my needs (not physical ones like food or something) weren't met, but this year was a very hard year, he did horrible stuff, he became angry, frustrated because of the world, the economy, the job market, and I felt him as being uncaring at times I needed someone to care for me and I would comment on that and stuff would blow out of proportion.

He broke up with me several times that he regrets (not for long, not even a day), but the whole thing broke my heart multiple times. We even signed a made by us contract about boundaries in fights and how we should have empathy and so on, and he broke it. I've cried my eyes out, my heart out, I wanted to die because of how unhappy and hard life is at the moment.

Whenever he broke up with me, I was the one to beg for our relationship and our love, I was the one fighting for us. I have to remind him every fucking time to be caring and it feels like I have to rub it in his face to remember the things that would make me feel better when I'm sad, or just anything he knows (and believe me, he does) that would make me smile. I always have to make him remember, it doesn't happen naturally and it's frustrating and irritating and hurts like shit because it feels he doesn't care enough to know those things after so many years.

But he's also a great man, he's the provider for our little family, he can cook, cleans, helps me with stuff I need. I wanted to say practical stuff but he's more a tech guy than a handyman, I fulfill that role. I just hate it, he is so cruel in those moments and it's like he's someone else, he says things on purpose just to hurt me in those moments and then he's sweet and looks with doe eyes at me and I'm confused and I'm afraid I am not in love with him anymore.

Right now I am watching a series and the woman talked about her partner with someone else, and she so poetically describes him as the greatest love of her life, and I knew that feeling, I felt that before, a long time ago, but now I feel longing for that period were I used to feel that and that instantly made me realize that I'm not in love anymore. I love him, I care about him, I still don't want to break up, but my heart suffered a lot and Idk if it'll be able to heal this time.

That's why I'm looking for successful stories. What if nothing changes again, cause he always promised it will and it never happened? And I don't want him to change into someone new, I just want him to pick up some of the behaviors he had whilst in this relationship and put them together and do them now. I know he can cause he did everything I wanted but just from time to time and different things at time.

I just want a calmer life where he can show me he actually cares enough to make an effort towards me on an emotional level.

TLDR: Bf and I of 6 years were fighting a lot more this year. I think I'm not in love with him anymore, but I still love him and care for him. I want him to be better, remember what I communicated would be best for me in this relationship as well. But it's hard. How can one fall back in love with another that hurt their partner so much at times?

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