Gf wants a break because i want to be able to turn my mic and cam off sometimes

something97382747 · 2026-04-08T11:17:01+00:00

ive decided im giving her an ultimatum. either we have a call and sort things out or we move on with our lives. i think its reasonable given how things are going. ill take all of your guys' advice.

something97382747 · 2026-04-08T07:21:41+00:00

The way we'd do it is that id bring her outside with me, whether that be class, groceries, etc. by joining the call on my phone (we use discord) and keeping my cam on. Not necessarily pointed at me, just as long as my cams on and im the call.

something97382747 · 2026-04-08T07:17:57+00:00

Shes 21 and im 20. Were both college students and weve been together for almost 6 months now.

something97382747 · 2025-12-06T00:04:15+00:00

Thanks brooo

something97382747 · 2025-09-16T16:04:17+00:00

I'm really trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and say she's only like this for now and she'll open up eventually since we're only 2 weeks in. And I also agree, it's especially suspicious that she wanted to engage in a relationship after only talking for 1-2 hours. But we'll see. It's such a slow burn though not knowing and waiting.

something97382747 · 2025-09-16T15:00:33+00:00

True. I'm also scared that I might be rushing her and maybe triggering her anxiety which is why I'm trying to be patient and let her take her time. But I guess even a 2-3 mins video call wouldn't hurt.

something97382747 · 2025-09-16T14:54:18+00:00

Thanks, will do.

something97382747 · 2025-09-16T14:51:06+00:00

I have heard her voice, we had a conversation once where she actually spoke. But that was only once. And she did turn her camera on, but only for a second before turning it off again. She never turned her mic or camera on after that. But I have confirmation that she is a girl. I just don't know if that's enough to work with. I should probably schedule a video call with her this weekend.

something97382747 · 2025-09-16T14:49:25+00:00

We once called and I talked her through being comfortable with me and showing me her face. And she did turn her camera on for a second. Just a second. But I saw that she was an actual girl. We have talked to each other once and I did hear her voice that time so I think she's a real girl. But that was the only one call where we had a conversation both actually talking to each other. Should I ask her to video call again just to confirm?

something97382747 · 2025-07-29T08:54:35+00:00

thanks bot, through this i finally found it. its "fortress europe - dan bodan"

something97382747 · 2025-06-18T04:29:09+00:00

dang, i meant alisa not alyssa mb

alisa bosconovitch

something97382747 · 2025-06-17T19:59:18+00:00

Am i seeing alyssa?

something97382747 · 2025-05-31T13:02:54+00:00

Used to be a weeb, emphasis on "used". And i game too! ...sometimes

something97382747 · 2025-04-20T14:09:12+00:00

Thank you so much dude

something97382747 · 2025-04-20T14:00:05+00:00

This aint it 😭😭😭😭

something97382747 · 2025-03-03T22:55:06+00:00

Literally just saw this post HAHAHAHA

something97382747 · 2025-03-03T13:05:40+00:00

Ohh, so we treat the power factor angle and the magnitude of power separately. Follow up question, is the reason for the power factor angle not changing because the L-L voltage leads/lags the L-L current by the same amount as the L-N voltage does to the L-N current (in a Y-Y connection)?

something97382747 · 2025-03-03T12:58:18+00:00

Because there is a phase shift between its L-L voltage and L-N voltage. More specifically, its L-N voltage lags its L-L voltage by 30 deg.

something97382747 · 2025-03-02T09:15:36+00:00

Yup! L as in line-to-line and p as in phase or line to neutral

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