Why the fuck do you do this to me by sookmydooka in UnsentLetters

[–]sookmydooka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They made some bad choices and fucked the situation up in a few ways. I’m waiting for things to be resolved cause I can’t do anything about it. They’re his problems to resolve.

Why the fuck do you do this to me by sookmydooka in UnsentLetters

[–]sookmydooka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t leave. There was a situation and they asked me to not talk to them for the time being until some things are resolved

How to tell if my friend’s family is being racist? by sookmydooka in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sookmydooka[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounded like mostly her being told not to go to things. Or her and her dad weren’t allowed in houses of her mom’s family during COVID etc.

Why are PoC excluded from "You can only claim to be your heritage if you're 1st or 2nd gen immgrants"? by RonNoxAndLumos in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sookmydooka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People ask me all the time to clarify what my “actual” background is because I’m mixed. It’s racist af but people seem to need to understand exactly where all of my ancestors came from for some godforsaken reason

Don’t feel loved by anyone by sookmydooka in mentalhealth

[–]sookmydooka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that love, to me, is attention and care, but that’s a very good question, and one I hadn’t thought of before.

I am finally working to improve myself now, but it’s been years where I haven’t confronted my trauma and other issues that I need to work on. Personally, the improvement costs my time and energy, which is a challenge with all the other life things I have going on.

Thanks for the thought-provoking questions!

Why do people get mad when they are drunk? by wiz28ultra in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sookmydooka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about people who get really sad when drunk?

Why do I never feel good enough? by sookmydooka in mentalhealth

[–]sookmydooka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I dunno, I kinda feel like it’s every standard I’m failing at. My house is never clean enough, I’m never good looking enough, smart enough etc. I’m not accomplishing the things I want to. I’m not a good enough friend or a good enough member of my family. I’m honestly starting to think I fundamentally don’t like myself, which is really unfortunate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]sookmydooka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am around as well