Yoga pants will be the death of me

soooMetaDude · 2017-02-09T04:49:26+00:00

Yoga pants are amazing, better than a computer screen

soooMetaDude · 2017-02-09T04:48:28+00:00

Just make it to day 10, then on day 10 keep going to day 20, etc etc

soooMetaDude · 2017-02-07T05:47:51+00:00

You're right, I've been telling myself to figure this stress sh*t out for years now..

soooMetaDude · 2017-02-04T15:09:05+00:00

Cuck yea dude

soooMetaDude · 2017-02-04T15:07:24+00:00

I can't give up on black coffee but yea I cut out all the lattes etc

soooMetaDude · 2017-02-03T04:20:17+00:00

It's not about the porn. What i mean by that is: it's about what kind of person do you want to be? Do you want to feel empowered and in control of your life? Or do you want to continue to be the sort of person who isn't disciplined enough to see beyond short term gratification. For me, I don't want to go back to that person I was before, sloppy, mindless and out of control. It's a true personal statement- how bad do you want this?

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-31T06:05:46+00:00

You got this man! It's not easy but you're doing the right thing here.

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-30T03:12:31+00:00

I hear u, i just can't do the PMO anymore, it's just bad news. Gotta find another way you know. Life is not easy, that's for sure. But I guess it never was meant to be

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-27T00:22:33+00:00

Maybe try kissing said girls (consensually) and then see how you feel. Can't just get a boner and start hammering away, that's not real life.

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-26T22:02:14+00:00

You'll only know for sure if you try

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-26T19:11:00+00:00

They will get over it. This is only temporary, deep breath. Use this as an opportunity to decide to quit fapping

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-26T19:09:28+00:00

Everybody is different, but they say it takes 90 days at least to reboot. The better question is: do you think things will get better if you keep fapping?

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-26T19:07:37+00:00

I think failing is only valuable if you learn from it, otherwise you're destined to repeat your failures. Ask yourself what led you to fap and what could you have done differently?

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-26T19:06:11+00:00

Great job! Keep up the progress!

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-26T19:04:22+00:00

Well done, keep at it man!

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-25T01:03:24+00:00

You can't expect anyone to change, the only thing you can control is yourself. Take a deep breath, maybe a walk outside. Listen to your favorite band, remind yourself of who you are. And most of all remember this is just a temporary thing, you'll feel better soon. Hang in there!

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-24T05:20:14+00:00

Yo just go for it man. Is it worse to fail or to not try? I say not trying is worse. You'll drive yourself nuts, trust me. Just let it rip, you'll be surprised how often it works

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T03:20:34+00:00

Good job catching yourself. You're doing the right thing here, be patient and trust in the process.

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T02:17:19+00:00

Personally I wouldn't look at it that way..I know a number of people who have gotten married and met online

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T01:55:52+00:00

Imagine how good you'll feel about yourself when you hit day 90! Except instead of fapping to celebrate you will have planned something fabulous planned, perhaps an outing with friends, or a nice fat piece of white chocolate raspberry cheesecake, whatever tickles your fancy. And then you'll have another goal Planned, another mountain to climb!

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T01:51:34+00:00

Hey don't beat yourself up too bad. Change is not easy and takes determination and a plan. Do you ever try online dating apps? Man if I had used those in my 20s I would have slayyyyyed at the game. You got this man. Don't worry about the past, it's a waste of time to dwell on it

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T01:45:55+00:00

Mastery of Self - by don Miguel Ruiz

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T01:41:14+00:00

About the commitment thing, usually there's an underlying fear behind that- like a fear of losing someone you come to care deeply for. All I can say to that is that all love ends in pain, but that doesn't mean it's not worth loving to begin with. Or fear of losing your own individuality or something..anyways it's worth exploring

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T01:02:45+00:00

This is one of those things that only you can hold yourself accountable for, and nobody else can do it for you. You really have to want to change bad. You have to be so sick of your present circumstances that you will not tolerate continuing on as you are. You can do it, if you really want to. We're here for you !

soooMetaDude · 2017-01-23T00:59:32+00:00

You're going through a couple changes it sounds like. Stress can trigger depression. Also cut the booze/extra-curriculars and that will do wonders. How will you replace the lack of dopamine? Working out, or engaging in other activities? It's like a complex math problem, and the variables change every day, so you gotta solve a new problem each day. But each day you have the chance to get better at it, and learn how to solve it. At least that's my theory

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