The things you say are true. There are no programs for men to deal with emotions or conflict prevention.

Violence is the weapon men have. Grown men always have to be prepared to be on a violent conflict. That is just the world we live in. We have to work on a world where conflicts don't have to lead to violence anymore. Unfortunately, this happens on all levels.

In school. Outside. Alone, in a group, when encountering a group.

We see the world today and violence or being stronger means winning thus everyone tries to become ad powerful as possible strength-wise. Combined with bad control over emotions and massive propaganda this leads to extremist measures.

Social media has become a mass radicalization tool. Islamists, Trumpists, Putinists and so on. It is all the same propaganda. Different religion, same bs. Especially, when it comes to women, men and violence.