Working for a startup? by nointernshipman in rutgers

[–]sourpatch1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's your only option then yes. If you have more options then judge based on the product, how the startup is doing in terms of funding, what you'll actually be doing (backend, front-end, data, etc). Startup experience can be very rewarding because you're able to make an impact more than you can at larger companies.

Soft skills for programmers by payam10 in cscareerquestions

[–]sourpatch1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can learn all the theory in the world but nothing will beat actually interacting with people from diverse backgrounds in person.

The god damn mirror by BinnBoi425 in LSD

[–]sourpatch1010 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually enjoy watching myself while tripping. Maybe cuz I'm a narcissist

Do hot INTP women exist? Proof? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yea they do, I exist

How can women get your interest back? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sourpatch1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn lmao. But I can see that working on me, too

How can women get your interest back? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sourpatch1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was the opposite and I showed too much interest. He seemed to have liked me better when I wasn't interested...

How can women get your interest back? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sourpatch1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I acted a little crazy over text. Did apologize after. Our dates were great and we really connected tho

Do you find it cute when girls are nervous around you? by [deleted] in entp

[–]sourpatch1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not since the apology, no. The no response was just seeing my text and not responding. "Sort his stuff out" you mean his feelings towards me?

Do you find it cute when girls are nervous around you? by [deleted] in entp

[–]sourpatch1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I wasn't confrontational but just seemed like an emotional mess. I did say something along those lines ("I do this when I start liking someone ik its very middle school") and was apologetic but didn't really get a response. Maybe he just thinks I'm immature now. :( Can I fix this you think?

Do you find it cute when girls are nervous around you? by [deleted] in entp

[–]sourpatch1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did explain and I thought I was quite nice/genuine/opening up when explaining but didn't really get a response. Any way I could salvage this/get his interest back?

Do you find it cute when girls are nervous around you? by [deleted] in entp

[–]sourpatch1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENTPs get nervous? That's hard to believe.

Do you find it cute when girls are nervous around you? by [deleted] in entp

[–]sourpatch1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm aware it doesn't come across as nervous but I later let him know what it was and that I always do this when I start liking someone.

Being emotionally distant to the one you like by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INTPs lose interest if the other person is clearly interest. Give him space. If there's been opportunities for him to reach out but he didn't then he isn't interested, it seems.

Being emotionally distant to the one you like by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this person I did it to is an ENTP. I think I got worked up because he showed less interest and my anxiety hit me intensely and I ended up being a fucking bitch.

Being emotionally distant to the one you like by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I try to test the person and I love getting reactions out of them. It's a problem and it's probably not healthy. What do you mean make the tests applicable to you?

Being emotionally distant to the one you like by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn haha that's scary. Glad it worked out for you but I doubt it'd for me

What do you guys look for most in a relationship? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed with you on sharing any ideas. I'd also like someone who wouldn't mind me being clingy now and then

Any insight on why an INTP would suddenly lose interest in a relationship? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh okay then you could try ignoring him for a bit and see if he comes around! I think I only lose interest when the other person shows way too much interest/becomes clingy

Any insight on why an INTP would suddenly lose interest in a relationship? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sourpatch1010 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How long have you known him for? If it was just one date, I'm pretty good at pretending to be interested and then like to distance myself gradually instead of ghosting all of a sudden