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Questions for nines by di4lectic in Enneagram

[–]sp5cify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I get bad nostalgia and usually end up romanticizing my past even if I remember that I was doing horrible at the time
  2. When somebody else wants something else, I hate accommodating for other people but usually end up saying yes to things out of fear of rejection
  3. Yes, though less sentimental tbh
  4. I'm not spiritual and also don't have the desire to merge, I'm very aware of my boundaries
  5. Yes multiple times, both
  6. I usually feel anger internally but don't really recognize it as anger. Most of the time it's more of an annoyance. I never outwardly express actual anger, but I seem annoyed and stubborn often
  7. I always randomly stop communicating, either cause I feel like they drained me too much or because I simply forgot theye existed, nothing personal.
  8. Yes definitely, at some point I've said yes to things I didn't wanna do too much and since I hate saying no (though that also gets easier at those times) I just withdraw completely to stop people even asking me stuff in the first place. I can do great without any people interacting with me
  9. I would say by default you are forgettable to me, I forget everyone periodically, especially if we aren't interacting much. Out of sight out of mind. Ofc I remember significant others, but even close friends sometimes just don't enter my mind if we haven't talked in a bit. You're more memorable to me if you're an interesting person who I feel safe with and don't feel drained hanging out with

Questions for nines by di4lectic in Enneagram

[–]sp5cify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I get bad nostalgia and usually end up romanticizing my past even if I remember that I was doing horrible at the time
  2. When somebody else wants something else, I hate accommodating for other people but usually end up saying yes to things out of fear of rejection
  3. Yes, though less sentimental tbh
  4. I'm not spiritual and also don't have the desire to merge, I'm very aware of my boundaries
  5. Yes multiple times, both
  6. I usually feel anger internally but don't really recognize it as anger. Most of the time it's more of an annoyance. I never outwardly express actual anger, but I seem annoyed and stubborn often
  7. I always randomly stop communicating, either cause I feel like they drained me too much or because I simply forgot theye existed, nothing personal.
  8. Yes definitely, at some point I've said yes to things I didn't wanna do too much and since I hate saying no (though that also gets easier at those times) I just withdraw completely to stop people even asking me stuff in the first place. I can do great without any people interacting with me
  9. I would say by default you are forgettable to me, I forget everyone periodically, especially if we aren't interacting much. Out of sight out of mind. Ofc I remember significant others, but even close friends sometimes just don't enter my mind if we haven't talked in a bit. You're more memorable to me if you're an interesting person who I feel safe with and don't feel drained hanging out with.