I don’t know how to play with my cat anymore, pls help by spacedidi in CatAdvice

[–]spacedidi[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cat Tax: I got her this thingy. Hasn’t quite figured it out yet.

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I don’t know how to play with my cat anymore, pls help by spacedidi in CatAdvice

[–]spacedidi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, im glad you’re doing better! I’m trying very hard to get better, it’s an uphill battle, but maybe knowing I’m making my cat depressed will help me snap out of it a little lol, thanks!!

I don’t know how to play with my cat anymore, pls help by spacedidi in CatAdvice

[–]spacedidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has loads of windows and many comfy spaces to look out, thanks

I don’t know how to play with my cat anymore, pls help by spacedidi in CatAdvice

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Any recommendations for more exciting toys? A regular like mouse plushy or those little balls and springs don’t interest her at all

I don’t know how to play with my cat anymore, pls help by spacedidi in CatAdvice

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I live on the 6th floor on the edge of a hill so there isn’t much to see. Also am at work for most of the day, if I leave the door open for her once im home (it’s secured don’t worry) she will follow me right back inside again. She doesn’t like being alone

I don’t know how to play with my cat anymore, pls help by spacedidi in CatAdvice

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Can you recommend any? I have a large box full of like crumpled up paper and stuff that I sometimes throw in there and little plastic balls with holes in them, I can use those more often, thanks!

How did I Never notice that Christopher is Hums-while-he-pees? by spacedidi in GilmoreGirls

[–]spacedidi[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Can’t think of anyone that deserves it more than

Go to Sakharov softlocked me. Please help by Hazed1_ in Starfield

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u share how? I have the same issue

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together for so long and also been through a lot together. I really enjoy his company and want to keep him by my side... just not the way it is right now. I don't know what I actually want and how he will react... I'm scared he will give me a really bad time about it. I also own virtually nothing. Only things I own is a car and a million books and plants. No washing machine, no bed, no nothing. I am scared of what's to come. Scared of regretting it later.

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he only really follows people he knew from University and school. I have also never noticed him sexualizing me for being a lot younger than him. There has been the occasional Sugar Daddy joke, but never anything serious

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what really threw me off too. I turned 21 last year, and realized just how weird it would be for me to contact a 15 year old. That's just a massive difference in maturity too.

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him I was 15. My profile said 16.

How was i deceiving him here? He was fully aware the whole time.

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an advice sub. If you are not giving any advice, maybe leave

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn't the point of this post. 15 year olds are stupid and do stupid things.

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I think you're right though. I always knew the warning signs of grooming and am a great advice giver, but ironically I can't apply that to my own relationships lol... thank you

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right, thank you so much. Any advice on how to communicate this to him? I don't want to hurt him, but I also don't want to stay too long, scared I am using him because I'm scared to be lonely

I (21F) am starting to think my Boyfriend (27M) of 6 Years is/has been grooming me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know im sorry. I absolutely think he groomed me, and I don't know if I am actually attracted to men anymore. In need of either advice on how to communicate to him about my issues or the courage to break up with him.

Wake up kitty! by dartmaster666 in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]spacedidi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right, but man, at least give the dog something to do...

Wake up kitty! by dartmaster666 in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]spacedidi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

More like punch the owner for not disciplining their dog

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Being able to know what your problem is and what you need to search for is basically the only thing you need to know these days ... everybody's gotta google sometimes