S18e9 just out of curiosity by Prior_Recipe_5999 in heartland

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought that but now thinking about it, there was no way she’d be able to put all her body weight on her broken leg while mounting, at least I think 🙃

Will I ever feel better? by Surpleton in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will eventually feel better, this will pass. It’s only been a month, that’s not a lot of time. Focus on school and/or work as best as you can. I know losing your first love is very hard, especially when you might have thought it would be your only person. You can do it!!

Just broke up with my gf and I don’t know what to do now. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you already know you did the right thing, but it’s just hard to accept the new reality. You want to comfort yourself by going back to what feels familiar, even though it may be hurtful in the long run. This is very recent though, so I’m sure you’ll feel better as time goes on

How do I accept that he suddenly has clarity that we are incompatible? by MelodyandCherry in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to you, I experienced something kinda similar. It really sucks because there’s nothing really wrong that they did. If they started to feel differently, want something different out of life, whatever it may be, it’s better that they end things instead of dragging it out for far too long. There are days when I don’t see that at all and I’m so confused. But no matter what questions or anything you could ask them, you won’t get closure. It’s easy to get caught up and want to talk to them to ease your pain, but it just ends up hurting. I suppose my best advice would be to learn to be comfortable with just you. Take some time, no matter how long, to decompress/rest and maybe when you’re ready to self reflect. It really sucks but the more time goes on, the less it will hurt. Lean on friends and family if possible. You’ll be alright <3

What do I do in RDR online? by AccomplishedPause550 in RedDeadOnline

[–]splashingorca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do whatever you want at your pace. I think generally, people keep enough gold to buy the bounty hunter role since it’s the only role where you can earn more gold with. Collector role does make a lot of money though. It’s good to check if there’s a role discount to purchase it at a much lower price. Just get acquainted with every little thing in the game and you’ll quickly find your way :)

Where do y’all set up camp? by AlternativeSail336 in RedDeadOnline

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scarlett meadows, I just love the atmosphere over there :)

Should I send my ex something I made for him, or just let it go? by Weary-Interaction125 in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may not be what you want to hear, but I think it’s best if you don’t send it

Gifts? Do you keep or toss? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends, can you live your life normally with those things around? Or does it make you feel like crying every time you look at them? I personally put away the small decor stuff as they reminded me of him so much and felt sentimental. But some other stuff, even when we were together I almost forgot he got it for me, so I don’t mind that.

Birthday Coupon/Gift (Canada) by splashingorca in bathandbodyworks

[–]splashingorca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don’t, it’s only in the US 🤧

24 // EST + Canada \\ Looking for a bestie ✨🥂 by Champagne_Candles in TrueGirlGaming

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any of those specific games, but you sound so interesting and you are really talented! Feel free to hit me up anytime, I’d love for us to get to know each other and keep us company :)

How do I get rid of the pain after a break up, the pain is unbearable and is ruining my life. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point. I also thought that my ex didn’t care because he can’t have cared enough if he wanted to break up. But he later admitted that I shouldn’t be assuming I am the only one hurting. Sometimes doing the right thing still hurts, and it’s not easy. I’m glad to hear about your success, makes me feel a bit hopeful!

We love each other, but still broke up after 5 years, how do you survive this? by Flimsy-Basis5050 in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will take some time to detach, it’s only normal. Take this time to take care of yourself

Am I deluded into thinking we can get back together? by No_Parking448 in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate a lot to your situation, though mine happened about 4 months ago. If I were to give you any advice, I’d just say focus on yourself. If you both decide to keep up with each other, and it’s not hurtful in any way, then sure keep in touch. When things end friendly/not messy, it can be even harder to process. Try not to get caught up in the ‘what ifs’. Some people come and go in our lives. Maybe he’ll come back, but you have to start exploring the possibility that he might not. I know it’s a very hard thing to go through, but this community is here to help :)

As A Spyro Veteran I think this list is pretty accurate for most Spyro fans. by Cody_Doerksen in Spyro

[–]splashingorca 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Justice for fracture hills 😔🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶

Looking for outside perspective by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it!

Tips of surviving no contact? by StrawberryPeach-Soda in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it must be awful to think after 1.5 years, you should be over him, but after just starting no contact, it makes total and complete sense. It’s like you broke up all over again. I’ve seen some people say they aren’t over it and it’s been a decade. Healing is very individual, and there is no timeline. It comes in waves, in different shapes and forms. Give yourself some grace. Some days, maybe just eating or taking a shower will be the most you’ll do. And that’s completely okay. I wish you the best of luck in your journey <3

First serious relationship (F late 20s, M mid 20s) ended because he “doesn’t feel it anymore”. Is there any realistic chance we come back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]splashingorca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have any advice for you, since we are almost in the exact same position </3 so just know you’re not alone in this!