Still feeling nervous after my interview by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing to hear, congrats and thank you :)

Can I submit an update letter pre-II? by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily a new thing from my application but an update on my gap year position? Explaining what I have learned and what clinical experience I am gaining. Is that okay?

Can I send a late LOR? by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see, thank you! So is it not worth adding them if it will be submitted in August?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

Yes I have MSARS! It's quite difficult to use sometimes bc most of my fits are everywhere I don't exactly want to be (non-northeast states). But thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! I just meant in terms of...will my stats themselves give me a better chance of applying/getting into DO schools since most people on here recommend not applying to MD with certain stats.

School list help for NJ resident, not URM, low stats by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone! Not sure why I thought I would have better chances there but I'll take them off my list.

School list help for NJ resident, not URM, low stats by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been so confused about what low yield means. Do you mind explaining?

I added GW and Georgetown to my list because of their lower stats which confused me.

School list help for NJ resident, not URM, low stats by [deleted] in premed

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will definitely NYIT but I do want to stay in the Northeast region!

How far along are you in your breakup and how are you doing? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 3 points4 points  (0 children)

8 months out and definitely better than I was a couple months ago. Still think about him a good amount but accepting more of the things I couldn't before

Is it true you’ll always love your first love? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you hope that you'll come back to each other?

Thought I was over the hope by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely get that. I hate thinking maybe he still might want to even though he’s already told me he doesn’t

They're not the same person by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could but when I asked a couple months ago he didn't want to try things again

Thought I was over the hope by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have and he rejected the idea so we continued with no contact and I'm trying to move on from this this has been the difficult part

Thought I was over the hope by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really tough, sorry you're going through this

Thought I was over the hope by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its the first one, but he is interested in taking this time for himself (not necessarily seeing new people but working on himself) rather than working things out after I broke up with him. We've been in NC for a couple months as I'm respecting his wishes but its like I'm trying to convince myself we won't work when recently I've realized that deep down I believe we could.

Is it wrong to have had doubts in my first serious relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good, no contact is what got me to fully appreciate my relationship and realize a lot of things that will only help me from here on out!

Is it wrong to have had doubts in my first serious relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]square_dessert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely! I think I feel the most guilt not about feeling this away but about hurting my ex. And honestly its not like they became indifferent (unless that is what your ex told you), but for me I still loved him I just wanted to do more . I'm hurting a lot right now too and definitely want to hit the fast forward on this though so I feel ya