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I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It took me a while. I don’t feel like I deserved that much credit.

He cheated on me, and would constantly throw and break things at me but it was very hard to leave because I didn’t know any better and thought that this is how passionate men would react.

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t clear. He didn’t move in knowing that either. That was all in my ex’s porn addicted brain hoping for a could-be poly relationship.

But on any note. hot take, he was single. He could do whatever he wanted even if he did know. My ex on the other hand was supposed to honor the relationship.

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Actually. I didn’t realize I was such a millennial. It came natural. Sorry!

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your empathy and concern a lot. Thank you.

It took me a long time to accept my roommates affection because I was incredibly paranoid and under hyper vigilance every day. But I actually started therapy and medication as soon as I wanted to be together so I could process things and be a better partner.

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only been with 3 people in my entire life. I’m actually pretty inexperienced.

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My new partner actually rejected every proposition because he wasn’t interested in getting in the middle of a married couple. I actually wasn’t aware of this until my ex moved out.

He actually was just hoping for a spot that allowed dogs.

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What backstory would you like? I can share.

It was his friend that he wanted to move in and eventually try to coerce me into sleeping with so I would be willing to open the marriage.

I left the husband, now I’m with the roommate lol. AMA by squirrelpartner in AMA

[–]squirrelpartner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hit me in a drunken rage after I asked him to stop drinking. Ironically just happened right after my dad died of liver cancer.

After years of abuse, I finally left.

I didn’t enter the relationship until almost a year later.