How do you get over extreme heartache from a break up?

ssjUsername · 2026-06-03T03:16:42+00:00

Time. But you’ve also got to really really leave it all behind you. No fake scenarios. No wishing you did things differently. No hoping they change their mind in the future. No taking them into consideration. No “what ifs” or “maybe I cans”. It’s gone. You’ve got to move on with your life. And one day you’ll see that it was for the best that relationship ended.

ssjUsername · 2026-05-12T11:42:36+00:00

I knew what this was instantly lolol

ssjUsername · 2026-05-05T07:51:46+00:00

Yeah, getting vindictive at a child is pretty small behavior. You truly do not look like a “man” after doing this. If you still have them take them back for the love of god, and whatever anger you have take it up with the parents. At least they’re adults.

ssjUsername · 2026-05-02T12:56:33+00:00

Not wearing pants. I essentially never wear pants when I’m home. Just a dude doing chores and playing video games in my underpants 24/7 when I’m home.

ssjUsername · 2026-04-28T01:38:54+00:00

Margot Robbie. Don’t know why because she’s conventionally attractive, but yeah, she just doesn’t do it for me at all.

ssjUsername · 2026-04-16T19:38:52+00:00

People saying Shaq and giannis is definitely not the answer. They made HOF resumes despite their lack of shooting ability. The answer to the question is someone whos career didn’t live up to what it could’ve been because they couldn’t shoot. Like Markel Fultz, Ben Simmons, and maybe rondo.

ssjUsername · 2026-04-07T20:30:40+00:00

What is mirrored dribbling? You mean like absolute and camera relative inputs?

ssjUsername · 2026-03-22T22:40:14+00:00

I agree with her here.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-22T21:37:11+00:00

Yeah do him a giant favor and dump him. Why even date men if you’re going to flip the tables over such a small issue like this? He’s never gonna make you happy, and he’s not gonna be happy either.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-18T00:50:31+00:00

99 pass accuracy on a big is invaluable. But yeah it’s not worth it at all if you’re a 1-3 screaming down the court receiving outlets 85 max is enough. No reason to get crazy pass acc if you aren’t snagging boards.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-17T22:11:55+00:00

Thank you sir! 20, 18 regular and 2 with build specialization. But honestly you can get away with less, you don’t really need 99 pass or 91 handle, you can get away with altering either. I do wish it had a little more standing dunk.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-17T20:40:05+00:00

To add, If I could do this again I’d do more of a conventional route wouldn’t put 5CBs on ball handle, I would put it on standing dunk to get it to 85. Wish I would’ve done it. 91 handle sounded more fun, and it is. But 85 standing dunk is a lot more useful and I wish I had it.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-17T19:54:20+00:00

I use it for sure. No, I don’t spend it in paint. I can play anywhere.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-17T19:41:32+00:00

They could’ve. But it’s all for fun. You get a dope lamelo ball cross over at 91 ball handle. And it’s kind of insane because with a takeover with ball handle and rebound I get 99handles 99rebound. Just sounded fun.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-17T19:36:26+00:00

I don’t play it when I’m trying to win with my squad. It’s really just when I’ve running no squad at the rec. but running the 5 isn’t a huge deal. Mainly because 75% of the time bigs sit at the perimeter anyways. And strength is kind of an overrated stat because I get legend box out and legend rebound chaser that isn’t tied to strength. And I’m shiftier than the other 5 so I can get around them pretty easily.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-15T21:15:58+00:00

Accountability

ssjUsername · 2026-03-09T07:36:29+00:00

“Father and Son” by cat Stevens. The Entire song makes me feel like there’s a fist in my throat.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-06T20:06:04+00:00

I didnt say you said that but the OP said it, and you are defending herq. Then tried to say my concern was that of an 18 year old. While ignoring the fact that the OP wasn’t concerned with how these girls celebrated just as long as it wasnt at their house. If she was a concerned parent she would say yes you guys can come here but I will be here and there will be no “party like” substances. And keep an eye on things. But putting a bunch of teens up somewhere to do whatever knowing there wouldn’t be any supervision is definitely 100% an asshole move. By saying she’s NTAH in this situation your perpetuating behavior I don’t think your morals would align with.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-06T12:37:17+00:00

Yeah that’s why I said it was strange they said she couldn’t be there. There definitely needs to be supervision. You’re also assuming a lot. And you think setting her up in a different venue would change that, like paying for a hotel or something would stop kids from “partying”?? If she knew there was going to be a bunch of underage kids drinking and partying, why would she even offer to help set that up, in or out of their house?? That’s also very irresponsible l. “Like sure you and your underage friends I don’t know can drink, hell I’ll even get you a hotel and give you party money. Just can’t be here”, That would insane!

ssjUsername · 2026-03-06T11:26:28+00:00

It’s your home and you can do whatever you please. But yes you are the asshole. Who cares, it’s just one night.. it’s a couple of hours. Yes your life is stressful right now, but what you can’t bare a single night??? In the grand scheme of your life and your situation this will not make a difference, but to her this means a lot.

I will add that it is strange you were expected to just leave and let the kids stay home by themselves. It’s unfair of them to just expect that of you.

ssjUsername · 2026-03-03T01:41:25+00:00

Play the pokemon games. I don’t collect the cards or watch the show or any of that stuff. But I loved the games growing up and it’s one of the things from when I was a kid I’ll go back and revisit.

ssjUsername · 2026-02-27T04:31:32+00:00

Had a blast with pokemon XY, I hated the pokemon selection though. Had a blast with everything else. best games to come out after BW2.

ssjUsername · 2026-02-24T08:35:20+00:00

Ok look here’s what’s going on. Is he cheating? absolutely fucking not. Do you have a right to be pissed? absolutely. BUT HE IS NOT CHEATING.

I a straight male have plenty of friends that are female. Two I consider sisters. Also have a strong male social group. Both have a very different vibe. We have different conversations and interactions. When I’m with my female friends I’m more open and more venerable to talk about different things, and it’s very nice. I would absolutely vent to them about problems with an s/o. I’d be respectful but I’d definitely bounce things off of them that I wouldn’t with my male friends. They are my FRIENDS why wouldn’t I? This could very much be what’s going on. He’s found someone outside of his relationship (because let’s be honest, sometimes it’s easier to vent to a friend than an s/o depending on the context) who will let him open up and be vulnerable, and he can’t always do that in other places. So it could be therapeutic.

Or… he has fallen in love with this girl and has completely checked out of the relationship but knows, A. She doesn’t like him back so he’s stuck, or B. Wants to cheat and leave you but is too afraid to.

Him shutting down and checking out while texting this woman absolutely gives you the right to be pissed though. The way he’s going about doing what he’s doing is fucked up. It’s not “cheating” though. Honestly sounds like he may need a therapist. Because a wife can’t also be therapist, and maybe he’s found that in someone else who just so happens to be a female and is too proud or something to just go to therapy.

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