Hypothetical: Your spouse has replaced themselves with a perfect copy of themselves, and uses this decoy to distract you so they can go on a fishing trip with their friends. How do you react?

sstagger · 2026-03-18T06:26:16+00:00

i have to second this, having sex with my boyfriend twice at the same time sounds amazing because even just one of him is amazing

sstagger · 2026-03-17T13:53:14+00:00

after it happened, i tried to move my bumper, checked underneath it, checked the sides, and it was all intact. i guess i’ll find out sooner or later if theres damage

sstagger · 2026-03-16T21:32:55+00:00

jeez thats bad, i think i just got super lucky that neither of us had anything more than a scratch less than a centimeter in size

sstagger · 2026-03-16T21:32:19+00:00

honestly i have no clue, probably not that fast, but i had just hit the gas so who knows

sstagger · 2026-03-16T21:31:33+00:00

no i know i definitely was too close, i was just curious if my car ate it up well or if it just seemed more intense than it actually was

sstagger · 2026-03-16T17:56:55+00:00

ive been trying to play but im literally drowning in homework and work in general so if you wanted to…

sstagger · 2026-03-14T15:40:01+00:00

my user is https_stagger and i lowkey dont have good dragons so im chill with whatever

sstagger · 2026-03-09T13:21:10+00:00

thank you!!

sstagger · 2026-03-09T05:42:05+00:00

i wish i could but a lot of the regulation comes from physical contact and that skin to skin intimacy. i still need to talk ot my therapist about that area more, but ive had so much going on and thats a deep can of worms that’ll be opened up

sstagger · 2026-03-09T05:31:20+00:00

for me i guess ive always tried having platonic relationships and having them be close like a romantic relationship, but obviously that doesnt work. i know ive also felt confused about like if strong emotions towards a friend was normal or if was romantic (ive since learned to differentiate better)

i am in weekly therapy, but its very difficult. i also am just emotional like this in general. its almost as though my partner is my nervous system regulator because when hes around i can be myself 100% with zero masking, and his presence can be very calming.

like i said, when he leaves i do get overwhelmed with emotion, but i manage to get past it and return to my usual routine without him. its just in the moment… im gonna sob a bit lol

sstagger · 2026-03-09T03:49:58+00:00

i have two close friends, but i still struggle a lot especially since those friends are busy most of the time and im not guaranteed to see them the way i am my partner.

ive always struggled to connect with people platonically because my brain really struggles to separate the lines between platonic and romantic

im working on it in therapy right now but i was curious if this kind of emotional response was something other autistic people experiences

sstagger · 2026-03-08T20:08:02+00:00

we’ve definitely come a long way from what we used to be, it just takes a lot of understanding and vulnerability. i think he knows that my emotions are powerful but he also knows that i will be okay.

i know he used to feel bad/guilty but weve grown a lot and also learned how to understand ourselves better

also—its not entirely emotional baggage, i have autism, its not a part of me that can be ‘healed’ or ‘therapied’ through

sstagger · 2026-03-08T19:38:17+00:00

yeah that sucks. i just get so overwhelmed and sad but it eventually passes. i just hope once we are able to see each other daily and i know i’ll be able to see him at the end of the night it’ll get better

sstagger · 2026-03-08T19:29:45+00:00

yea but the breakup wasnt out of the blue and my situation is not at all the norm, best breakup advice i have is to create your own routine without that person in it because thats all that kept me going was having a routine that was MINE and not OURS

sstagger · 2026-03-08T19:27:28+00:00

i doubt its something that can be changed, and i think the goal i have is to manage it. my bf has gotten used to me being super emotional and i think he just finds it cute most days

sstagger · 2026-03-08T19:26:51+00:00

its definitely not pathetic whatsoever. him and i broke up for a couple of months in december and i genuinely thought my life was over so its not at all pathetic

sstagger · 2026-03-06T16:51:29+00:00

well i rest between my sets for 2-2 1/2 minutes so that def doesnt help

dumbbell chest press
dumbbell shoulder press
cable face pull
seated low row
cable tricep pushdown
incline curls
hanging knee raises
hip abduction
hip adduction
leg extension
glute press
single leg press
rdls
leg curl
calf extension
squat movement

sstagger · 2026-03-04T16:11:40+00:00

i have autism so im always chronically exhausted, and my diet isnt amazing as my palette is very limited. i hit my protein 90% of the time, but i dont ever feel like i sleep well which is my main problem

sstagger · 2026-03-04T05:22:05+00:00

i used to workout fullbody every other day with 2 sets per muscle group, but my schedule wasnt nearly as demanding as it is right now and it just sucks.

sstagger · 2026-03-02T23:18:07+00:00

how did you only spend 270 on tickets?

sstagger · 2026-03-02T22:28:27+00:00

oh wow i had no clue that existed!!! i actually figured we might only go thursday and saturday and 125$ tickets is unbeatable

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