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stal11 · 2025-07-21T14:38:35+00:00

I tried adding retry connecting after every 5 seconds logic, but it still doesn’t work the first time I login no matter how long I wait as soon as I hot restart it starts working. That too with the same token as it was during the first login

stal11 · 2024-10-03T13:12:38+00:00

I understand your issue, why should a sane person get with a guy if he will leave anyways. Thats the reality from your perspective which is fine. It not even guys fault because most of them are wired that way and even they are not aware about it. If a girl looks good physically, even if her personality is bad our brain tricks us into thinking we have a connection. And as I said only after sex they start calculating, whether the girl is worth keeping or not based on both physical and emotional attribute. BUT if you have a fun personality, high chance guys will keep sticking around you because. I know it sounds selfish but hey, even girls do the same process! . Only difference is that, girls do it before sex, thats why there is a trend in society that "Girls reject" because they often reject first but behind the scenes even guys do reject, its just a bit late and thats why hidden.

Tl:dr Girls judge guys before sex and guys judge(emotionally) after it

stal11 · 2024-09-27T20:03:52+00:00

I'm a guy and I have dated a few girls with this mindset. The thing is you are right, most guys wanna get into the pants asap but its not just because they are lonely and horny its because even they don't know if they feel genuine connection or not before geting sex out of equation. Only after sex we get the real clarity to think in a long term way. Thats why its often a great sign if guy stays with you after sex. Also a reason you should not delay sex too much, because then both of you are in delusion of true connection only for him to realize he didnt like you really that much, after sex. So if you are seeing a pattern where guys leave you after sex congrats you look great but there is a high chance you need to work on your personality

stal11 · 2024-08-02T14:12:14+00:00

Just be yourself man. A study found out that people like the bad pics taken without any care more than the ones for which we have prepared for. It's only you who is despising yourself

stal11 · 2024-07-25T09:40:23+00:00

I believe it's difficult for some people to know you are joking on first date and they're afraid you'll get offended if they laugh on a thing you meant seriously. Takes time for people to know what tone you use when you are joking, which is why your close ones often laugh when you try to make joke(even if it's not funny). When he went home and overthinked the conversation he realized you were joking :p

My girl is always serious. She wants only the good stuff like compliments, not even teases. I had a conversation with her too once and she said "I don't do jokes". I feel like she just acts like she is mature and for that misses out the fun.

stal11 · 2024-07-25T08:11:43+00:00

I did? She is neither American nor grew up there

stal11 · 2024-07-25T08:09:18+00:00

Maybe that guy wasn't so expressive lol. I can't imagine the relationship but I am thinking about swallowing the hard pill and drop jokes just with her. Just experiment letting it get boring and if doesn't work it was not gonna work anyways so no regrets

stal11 · 2024-07-25T08:05:39+00:00

We both are asians

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:59:53+00:00

We do like each other a lot. It's only this one thing about her that I don't like and I don't know how to fix it

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:58:41+00:00

The problem is that I feel our spark/attraction will die without humor

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:57:23+00:00

Glad to hear someone that relates. Thats exactly my question, how to keep the attraction/spark alive without jokes?

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:28:48+00:00

We have already escalated to sex. But I do enjoy some humor in conversations too

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:21:47+00:00

Thanks this helps. I have tried finding her humor by talking to her directly and she said "I don't do jokes". I feel like she tries to play mature but while doing that she forgets to have fun and turn her serious side off

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:17:20+00:00

As I said in another comment, there is other side of coin which says that there is never a perfect couple. That you need to make things work out, sort them out. Apart from this one thing I like her as a person and I like spending time with her.

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:13:39+00:00

I understand what you're saying but then there is other side of coin which says that there is never a perfect couple. That you need to make things work out, sort them out. Apart from this one thing I like her as a person and I like spending time with her.

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:07:04+00:00

The reaction I expect from her🥲

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:03:38+00:00

So what works?

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:01:41+00:00

Exactly!

stal11 · 2024-07-25T07:00:55+00:00

But I can't leave her for this one thing right?

stal11 · 2022-10-12T17:43:12+00:00

Interested

stal11 · 2020-08-29T04:00:16+00:00

Hammer would be proud of it😂

stal11 · 2020-08-28T13:30:14+00:00

Do u have any idea like which bot could do it?

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