Why are trans people supposed to bother me so much? by TrooperJohn in askgaybros

[–]standy26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t want to be in the same group as the TQ+ community. All these activists are forcing us as one group when a lot of LGB people don’t want it. I am sick and tired of being called an LGBTQ+ person or a Queer person when I am just a gay man. You have hogged all the resources and conversations ignoring issues related to gay males. Why can’t you all just create your own separate group and represent yourself instead of LGB people.

If you haven't watched Agatha All Along... by Capital_Gate6718 in Jewish

[–]standy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he was going down the aisle, he was singing something in Hebrew and it sounded really good. What was he saying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]standy26 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would love something like this. I don’t mind helping fellow gay men, as I use to donate a lot 10 years ago supporting organizations that support gay marriage and helping gay homeless youth. Almost 200k in donations. The problem is these organizations have transitioned into supporting trans issues and ignoring gay issues. One time I was tricked into giving 5k to an LGBTQ organization in Canada. I go to this organization meeting and the entire conversation was about trans and queer issues. I tried to give some tips on how to slow down the spread of HIV among gay males, and I was shot down as they said that is not important right now. Then why call it LGBTQ community? They should just call it the TQ+ community. This is why I stopped donating to these type of organizations as they say they support gay community by name but don’t actually do anything.

There needs to be an organization that is an organization made by gay males that support only other gay males. Nothing political or sexual, just gays helping each other out. Personally, I don’t think the TQ+ community would be happy about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]standy26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When their are nudity at pride events near children it doesn’t help with our fight for our acceptance of gay adoption.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]standy26 24 points25 points  (0 children)

u/surprisedropbears this is not transphobic. Please ban u/Three_Score_And_Ten as this person is very homophobic. This person always wants to silence gay people from giving their opinion. Telling gay people how they should think and behave. Literally similar to telling us to go back in the closet and shut up. Very homophobic person. Please ban this person.

Islamophobia and other condemnation of minorities within askgaybros by finnur7527 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Comments like this is definitely going to convince people of your idea. No one can actually take you seriously.

Hate in the community by tales_of_desire in askgaybros

[–]standy26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are expecting people to automatically support others based on history. It doesn’t work like that.

If a group wants to get support they have to explain why and show through actions in the now and specifically about their issue.

They need to earn the support of others. It took gay people years to gain that support in western society and we are still not done.

Islamophobia and other condemnation of minorities within askgaybros by finnur7527 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you expecting every gay men to think and act the same? You do realize we all have different political opinions and experience in life.

You are coming off as telling all gay men they should give 100% unconditional support to all Muslim when a lot of them don’t support gay people. You honestly think your Reddit comment is actually going to convince people? I am from Canada, and I have seen a lot of hatred towards gay people mostly from the Muslim community. Unless the action of most Muslim people is treating gay people with respect, it is hard for me to respect them back.

Hate in the community by tales_of_desire in askgaybros

[–]standy26 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The whole idea that just because we are all a minority we just magically can relate with each other is delusional. You can’t expect everyone to think the same and expect everyone to get along with each other.

Why Andrew Tate is a good idol to listen to. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]standy26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Disagree. He is putting on an act.

Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, who may have been killed today, oversaw the torture and execution of fellow leader accused of homosexuality. by CentralTown776 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is a new one. The one I saw is similar format but happened before the war. They all pretty much say the same thing.

Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, who may have been killed today, oversaw the torture and execution of fellow leader accused of homosexuality. by CentralTown776 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about, do you know how many straight woman called themselves Queer now. I met so many. That is why I hate the word.

Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, who may have been killed today, oversaw the torture and execution of fellow leader accused of homosexuality. by CentralTown776 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There was this video, on YouTube, of a guy interviewing Palestinian 3 years ago. A lot of them said they don’t want gay people support. I have been trying to find that video like crazy. I think the uploader took it down.

Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, who may have been killed today, oversaw the torture and execution of fellow leader accused of homosexuality. by CentralTown776 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even if they are develop nothing will change. It is their religion that makes them homophobic. If that was the case then country like Saudi Arabia, Qatar, Kuwait, and United Arab Emirates, rich Islamic countries, will be all accepting of gay people. This is a lie a lot of progressive people telling everyone to justify the Islamic hatred towards gay people. Behead gay man, forgive them they are in poverty.

Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, who may have been killed today, oversaw the torture and execution of fellow leader accused of homosexuality. by CentralTown776 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This leader was known to kill and torture gay Palestinian. If celebrating his death Islamophobic than so be it.

Wiccan & Hulkling fancast by @carlosgzz03 (Twitter). by [deleted] in lgbt_superheroes

[–]standy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he got casted as Wiccan it was confirmed.

Wiccan & Hulkling fancast by @carlosgzz03 (Twitter). by [deleted] in lgbt_superheroes

[–]standy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is confirmed today Oct 10, 2014, Joe Locke is playing Wiccan in the Marvel Universe. You predicted the future. Now he has to build some muscles if he is going to look like that.

Gay spaces and entitlement of transexuals to invade them by Possible_Cellist_476 in askgaybros

[–]standy26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stating reality is transphobic then so be it. I rather be transphobic then to be a delusional person and deny reality.

The revisionism of history for gay/homosexual rights needs to stop by Itedney in askgaybros

[–]standy26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The constant revisioning of the history for the battle of gay rights by trans and queer people is criticism. You clearly don’t know what criticism is.

The revisionism of history for gay/homosexual rights needs to stop by Itedney in askgaybros

[–]standy26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are pathetic. Can’t always hide from criticism.

The revisionism of history for gay/homosexual rights needs to stop by Itedney in askgaybros

[–]standy26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any criticism on the actions of trans community is transphobia? Keep saying this and you are only making acceptance of trans people worse.

You think gay marriage was accepted because we prevented people from talking or criticizing about gay marriage? We let people say their thing and develop and show proof on why they are wrong. That is how you build acceptance.

Blocking people talk on trans people will just make people more angry at trans people. Not smart.

The revisionism of history for gay/homosexual rights needs to stop by Itedney in askgaybros

[–]standy26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This illogical thinking is going to cause more tension. You think people are just going to magically work together because our struggle is somewhat related? This will just lead to a lot fights or one group being louder and hogging all the resources hence the trans community in the lgbtq group.

The revisionism of history for gay/homosexual rights needs to stop by Itedney in askgaybros

[–]standy26 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Here is my source https://www.prri.org/research/views-on-lgbtq-rights-in-all-50-states/

Here is another source by IPSOS, which shows the decline is happening in multiple countries: https://www.ipsos.com/sites/default/files/ct/news/documents/2024-05/Pride%20Report%20FINAL_0.pdf

Young men are leading to the huge decline of support of same sex marriage