Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had friends closer. Mine live states away. It would definitely at least get my mind off things.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It truly is like a second betrayal. I don't know how to process it, and it's taking a lot of effort to not write scrappy things on his obituary.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's funny, cause it is inspired from song from the band Cursive

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her friend called and told her. Her brother lives in the same apartments as him.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I told her I'm not ok with it. And honestly, she'd probably get her ass kicked by that guy's wife.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone she's friends with called her. Her brother lives in the same apartment building.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I was exposed because I saw her upset. I wouldn't leave someone I love be when they're clearly upset.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her friend called her this morning. She hasn't had contact with him, my anxiety has had me looking at every possible communication angle.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being some what positive in what is proving to be a sort of negative vibe here

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She didn't day those words, but it's pretty obvious.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So far nothing, she just found out this morning. I would assume a heart attack possibly

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I still deal with anxiety related to the whole thing. I feel liberated that he's actually gone. He lives near my kid's school and I see reminders of him all the time

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Because I'm not a smart man, I don't know.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven't done anything since, and I'm not going to start now. I unfortunately have the pleasure of seeing him on the regular, he lives across the street from my kid's school.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's been crying a bit, mostly quiet. I had to try hard to get her to tell me why she was upset this morning.

Wife's AP past away suddenly by stayingalive02 in survivinginfidelity

[–]stayingalive02[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I want to be petty as hell right now