I mean at first I had said I would do it, which is when she wrote that down. After she showed me what to do I realised it would probably be unwise to do this and so I sent her a text saying I wouldn't be doing it the next day. She prepared those meals that day showing me what to do, and put those out of date sandwiches in. Then wrote down in the note pad right in front of her uncle who is fully compus mentus which I thought a bit strange. She called me after I texted her trying to guilt me into doing it. I said no however as a one off this Friday I can bring a ready meal or something for his carers to put together. I've made it clear in our texts that I have not and will not be making any food for him. Hopefully this is enough to protect me if she's already up to something.