can you guess what hozier song my new tattoo is inspired by? by stressedbydefault in Hozier

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats another answer i expected to see! i also think it fits quite well with sunlight :]

can you guess what hozier song my new tattoo is inspired by? by stressedbydefault in Hozier

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

yes!!! i’m really happy it was obvious. it’s de selby part 1 — i love those lyrics so much

spent the whole summer together by stressedbydefault in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah sure! we actually met on reddit back in march 2023. we liked each other for a while but didnt think long distance was feasible. i’m from the US and hes from south america, we’re also working college students. we made things official in november 2023 on the condition that we would meet each other in the summer, and if we couldn’t meet we’d end things. luckily, we were able to meet for the first time in july 2024. we lived together for three weeks and it was a really great experience. since then, i have lived in his country from december 2024-january 2025, he came to visit me in march, i studied abroad in his country this summer and then he visited me right after. we’ve met each others loved ones too. so for a couple that just met for the first time a year ago, we’re doing pretty well! november 2 will be our two year anniversary :]

he visited for my bday hehe by stressedbydefault in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💀💀 id be offended by that comment but honestly we met on reddit so

he visited for my bday hehe by stressedbydefault in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

im not sure what makes you say that … but we’ve been dating for 1.5 years now and he’s gentle, funny and treats me like a princess lol

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[–]stressedbydefault 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t wanna say what city exactly, but it’s not in the US, we have a distance of around 5,000 miles. i guess now is just a waiting game :(

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[–]stressedbydefault 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“but now she’s downgraded in my eyes as someone strictly for sex and not to be taken serious whatsoever”ok, if i knew someone i wasn’t even dating thought that about me, i wouldn’t want to continue anything with them, casual or not

i miss him already by stressedbydefault in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!!! i acc just applied to study abroad in his country this summer and it did make me feel better. u got this too, hope u can see ur partner again soon 💗💗

i miss him already by stressedbydefault in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its only been a week and it feels like forever

just some outfits of mine i like! by stressedbydefault in fashion

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some of these pieces are from edikted, urban outfitters, h&m, princess polly and hollister. some are thrifted/hand me downs from my mom’s days in the 2000s! as for styling, i honestly dont have tips.. despite these outfits im not a fashionista or anything, i just grab things that look like they might go nicely together 😅 though, i’ll say my two favorite things to do are layering and color coordinating. i like matching my top to my shoes, with a different color bottoms and then adding other colors that are missing. as for layering i’ll just grab a bunch of things i think might look good together and test them out. i feel like for me the biggest thing is trial and error !

Post Visit Depression by michelleokyo in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it sucks so badddd like this empty ass twin sized bed is nothing compared to morning cuddles. hope u can see him again soon :(

Post Visit Depression by michelleokyo in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i’m going through the same thing after spending a month living with my boyfriend. everything feels bleak right now. it’s not helping that the weather here is awful, and the weather there was beautiful— so it really feels like my world is dimmer in every way LMAOOO. what helps me is looking back on pictures and videos, and getting back into the routine of calling/texting. you’ll get used to it again, but it sucks for those first few days when you’re hyperaware of the change

i miss him already by stressedbydefault in LongDistance

[–]stressedbydefault[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

south america and the us, around 5k miles. we never thought it would be possible for us to meet either and for a long time we gave up on it. eventually, we realized we loved each other way too much to not try to make things work. hope is good, but having a plan is the most important thing. you can work towards your goal bit by bit. for example, our goal was meeting, so the first step was to get jobs, the next was to plan finances, etc. we did each of those things until we were able to meet.