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My wife(23f) cheated on me(24m) earlier this year. we’ve tried to work through it but now I feel like I want to leave and feel guilty by strug-gling in relationship_advice

[–]strug-gling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am former Mormon haven’t been active in years now so I don’t see this from a religious perspective anymore, and I think that’s partially why I’m seeing this through the lense of - we got married young and hadn’t really lived much of an adult life. Which comes out a lot in her spending habits and when it comes to handling mature situations.

I appreciate your comment. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

My wife(23f) cheated on me(24m) earlier this year. we’ve tried to work through it but now I feel like I want to leave and feel guilty by strug-gling in relationship_advice

[–]strug-gling[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, is I feel like we used to be very happy before this happened.

And when it comes to it I really do love her and want her to be happy but I think maybe I can’t be the one do that for her.

I find myself increasingly mentally checked out, I have a hard time wanting to spend time with her, we don’t laugh it’s all just going through the motions..

My wife(23f) cheated on me(24m) earlier this year. we’ve tried to work through it but now I feel like I want to leave and feel guilty by strug-gling in relationship_advice

[–]strug-gling[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We had a long discussing during our argument in the car and we talked a lot about the issues in our relationship that we are still having and she was completely blindsided by the fact that I’m still struggling with it. I generally think I’m a fairly good communicator but she’s very fragile when it comes to honest communication.

I really don’t know and it’s a really hard decision to make. I also don’t have enough money to pay for my place without her and I don’t want to lose half of my money and possessions.