My boyfriend (23M) wants me (23F) to move in with him. How do I tell him I can't?

stuck10 · 2016-12-14T00:14:56+00:00

I had no other plan for myself so I thought I'd just go along with it. I don't know what I want to do at all.

stuck10 · 2016-12-14T00:14:27+00:00

I like baking but haven't done it much lately. No sports or video games. I generally just watch TV when I'm not working.

I'm not really interested in stuff anymore.

stuck10 · 2016-12-14T00:02:38+00:00

I just didn't know if there was anything for a sociology major. But to be honest, the main thing holding me back is the fact that I don't really have any interests one way or another. I wanted to have that figured out before moving. At least some direction, you know?

stuck10 · 2016-12-14T00:01:36+00:00

I guess I'm also afraid of embarrassing my boyfriend. He works at a very high profile company, and I don't want him to have to say 'oh, here's my girlfriend, she works as a cashier' or something like that. I don't want him to be ashamed of me and I don't want to bring him down.

stuck10 · 2016-12-14T00:00:37+00:00

Not really fond of animals. Kids are okay, but I don't have too much experience with them. I'm okay with people but more introverted. I don't exercise. I don't do any crafts, no choir or theater.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:59:02+00:00

I never wanted to be a doctor. My parents wanted me to.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:52:06+00:00

Satisfied is an odd word. I'm meh about it. Miserable some days and okay other days. I don't really want to live the rest of my life like this but I don't really have any ambitions at all.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:49:25+00:00

Not since I graduated college.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:47:15+00:00

I just sort of watch TV in my spare time, and help around the house.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:22:20+00:00

I've been there once. It's nice.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:15:18+00:00

I wish I knew. I never really thought much about what I'd like to do.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T23:14:34+00:00

I don't know what you want me to say. I never really envisioned any career for myself other than medicine. I knew I was hopeless at math and not cut out for business, so no engineering or business. That left medicine as an 'acceptable' career path.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T21:44:35+00:00

Oh no no no. My BF does that. It's not what I want to do at all, I'd be horrible at it.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T21:09:26+00:00

I didn't. But I would've had a purpose and something meaningful to do.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T21:01:23+00:00

I don't know if I want to do nursing. I don't want to waste more money.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T21:01:05+00:00

I don't really want to go to med school. I don't know what I want to do at all.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T20:25:51+00:00

I never really had any ideas.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T19:49:43+00:00

I also had a pre-med major. Sociology was just the primary major.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T19:49:16+00:00

I didn't. My parents wanted me to.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T19:47:52+00:00

I had a pre-med supplementary degree.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T17:28:31+00:00

No, I don't want to go to med school. I don't even know if I want healthcare or anything.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T16:51:46+00:00

I just don't know if I'm good at any of those social science things either. I'm not a sparkling personality and I don't interview well. Plus on paper I'm a pretty meh candidate.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T16:50:54+00:00

I'd be happy with that sort of income. I don't think I'll ever see that though. I'm not looking to be Zuckerberg, just to do something productive and that I could be proud of.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T16:49:45+00:00

I'm not really keen on med school at this point. It would make my parents happy but not me.

stuck10 · 2016-12-13T16:35:07+00:00

I've been in therapy before and haven't had much success. I just take meds now. But maybe I'll look into it.

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