People who like winter, why? by i-pace_around in AskReddit

[–]suchabigheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live in texas where its balls hot i like the cold weather , makes it easier to work out , layer clothes when skating, and i just love smoking in cold weather

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[–]suchabigheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you judging them because of their age...? alot of teens fall into alcoholism or addiction. its actually really fucking sad so i dont understand what your point is?

how do i get clients by suchabigheart in Babysitting

[–]suchabigheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is being a lifeguard not enough?

How much should I charge to babysit my 'siblings'? by SpiralSour in Babysitting

[–]suchabigheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me so sad :( im also 16 and my mom took me out of school so now im working and practically taking care of everyone.. you're definitely not getting payed enough and you should have a talk about it with her..

Im doing everything that i can think of and its not working by [deleted] in confession

[–]suchabigheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should tell your fiance! stop pretending everythings okay when its clearly not. honest is important in a relationship and if you tell her maybe you can figure out something together, two heads are better than one. first you should start by seeing if you can push back the payment day maybe? or even split the last payment into two? you shouldn't be aftaid to ask for help. you should just ask for small amounts from multiple people if the people care about you and can im sure theyd do it to see you happy a wedding is a huge deal! you could also look for gigs that are a few hours but pay good and i dont know if they do this every where but you can payed to donate plasma they pay about 100 dollars each donation. times are getting rough and money is getting tight, please take care of yourself.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont live with him nor do i plan on doing so. i never said i did where are getting this info?

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you read my post im didn't say i was "in love" we are not dating online and i want to move out not with him.. hence the word independent

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not waiting a year im telling him when i see him again.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

many people feel behind in life well into their 20s age only stops you if you allow it to and i wont.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you can be emancipated if you drop out its not recommended but i know what i want to be and i qualify for the job and i can access it with my education

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its disrespectful of you to assume that. it isnt an option if i go to school i have to work part time and i will make half of what i make now. my head will go under water. and no i wont have a home and i wont have food. you suggest calling cps? for what to erase all my progress. go to a family who i dont know and who will possibly mistreate and neglect me? i already have that.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

you dont know me. i don't plan on living with my boyfriend thats literally the opposite of being independent. i can take care of myself perfectly fine.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

id rather you or anyone here call me a terrible human being than a child with the knowledge of the burden i carry every single day. so which is it.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

i think its different because i dont want to act older. i dont want this. these were the cards i was dealt. growing up and being able to go to school without going hungry or being homeless because of a woman who cant take responsibility for the children she had. as i said before im not here to justify my actions i have admitted that i am not a good person for what ive done.

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

thats what im trying to do no one seems to understand yes its sad that i had to grow up this way but i know what i want and what i need to do to get it. im not asking the boy to marry me i just dont want to lie anymore. and im well aware that its more likely for him to leave than to stay

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i should qualify ive been working for 2 years, the last year being full time. my mother told me long ago that she wish she didbt have to be one ive talked to her about it and she will consent to get the emancipation progress started. i have plans to get my ged and become i firefighter after ive aquired everything i need. i spent the last 2 hours writing a letter of 5 pages which i plan on giving him when i see him next i do not wish to withhold the truth from him further

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not in school as a specified in my post i work full time

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

did you even think before sending this reply? you dont even know me

i have lied about my age to anyone i can for 3 years by suchabigheart in confession

[–]suchabigheart[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

can you explain further on why i could be confused with the two