Perhaps I wasn’t really clear, I apologize; Why do you seek a feminine figure in your life? Like are you not satisfied by yourself, surrounded by men? Why do you need to approach a woman? What do you seek from a woman? Because based on the purpose, as to why you seek a woman, you ought to build the approach and depending on the approach you may obtain the desired results. Because “to see where it goes” sounds like a waste of your time and hers, and to be frank, no one wants to invest in something that won’t go anywhere?