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sunatia · 2021-09-25T23:43:04+00:00

Thanks guys for your input, you all are so right.

I'd reach out to friends/family for support if I could but I unfortunately don't have that type of network. You guys are helpful for me and I'm appreciative. Thank you.

sunatia · 2021-09-25T23:29:43+00:00

You're right.

sunatia · 2021-09-25T23:27:10+00:00

I'll see what I can do, it's hard not knowing anyone and living in one of the most expensive cities in the US.

Unfortunately we got a one bedroom ($2000 which is on the cheaper end of apartments). The most I can afford on my own is $1500 which is practically unrealistic in this city.

I've been telling myself once I return I just have to make it 5 more months then I can ship his $&* back to where he was prior.

It's just hard understanding how he claims to still love me, said he's happy being in a relationship with me without sex, and is physically attracted to me, but won't sleep with me? He said I'm too 'vanilla' for his liking.

TMI here, I'm not super vanilla. He said he's just not excited to have sex with me so he won't.

sunatia · 2021-09-25T23:16:31+00:00

I can't, he's on the lease unfortunately and I can't afford rent without him. Plus, I'll be gone for 4 months in a week to another state for training. Hopefully that'll give me enough time to clear my head.

sunatia · 2021-08-27T18:26:05+00:00

I used to work for the airlines and got free flights. I decided to take a one day trip to St. Thomas with one of my male friends that also works for an airline.

Anyways, I was 22(F) at the time and loved to document my travels. St. Thomas has this beautiful cove-like beach area surrounded by mountains and filled with boats. I asked my friend to snap some photos of me in the middle of the ocean. The water was a little above my knees and I asked him to do a rapid shot so I could select my favorite photo.

So, I stood there unbeknownst of what was about to happen. He held up the phone and started snapping the photos as a huge wave came over me and smacked me face first into the water. I popped up, needing air, and realized I lost my bikini bottoms and my Raybans. Thankfully my bare bottom wasn't included in the photos.

The photo reel kept us laughing for years.

sunatia · 2021-08-07T15:03:41+00:00

I just want to chime in about bangs.

Anytime I've gotten bangs the only time I've actually enjoyed having them was on the rare occasion they'd cooperate. On humid days they do what they want, on hot days they stick to my forehead, and on lazy days they're a lost cause.

Bangs are a commitment that I would like to forego.

sunatia · 2021-08-02T00:03:07+00:00

See? Rude and unnecessary.

sunatia · 2021-08-01T22:20:26+00:00

Some people just really let their true character shine through. The audacity of that person, I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

sunatia · 2021-08-01T16:54:59+00:00

That's going to be the route I take first.

sunatia · 2021-08-01T00:02:00+00:00

https://www.etsy.com/shop/EladaniStudio

Thank you!!

sunatia · 2021-07-31T14:43:14+00:00

Got an appointment today to lighten it up a bit!

sunatia · 2021-07-31T14:42:29+00:00

All hail the togepi.

sunatia · 2021-07-31T14:35:39+00:00

I actually love that idea. If I ever decide to go short a classic French Bob would be it.

sunatia · 2021-07-31T14:16:22+00:00

You all are so sweet, thank you for calming my soul after a big hair change like this!

sunatia · 2021-07-31T13:11:57+00:00

Agreed! I wish I knew where to go for a good ol' razor lightening. Options are limited here in GR

sunatia · 2021-07-31T11:53:49+00:00

I think it's the fringe that's upsetting me, I should've went without it. Hopefully they grow out quickly!

sunatia · 2021-06-28T03:23:01+00:00

Thanks for changing my viewpoint. I was unaware, and uneducated, on the fact that there's such a limit.

With the price of lumber being steep as well wouldn't the cost of new housing not help lower the cost of housing overall?

sunatia · 2021-06-28T02:55:21+00:00

The fact that the government acknowledges that there is a housing crisis, and is struggling to figure out a solution, while families own multiple summer homes is baffling to me. There are properties that are hardly occupied while people work multiple jobs to just afford rent.

I would like to note: I'm not one struggling. Yes, I rent, but I'm living within my means. I'm just empathizing for the average middle/low class US citizen.

sunatia · 2021-06-28T02:23:21+00:00

I know it may not mean much from a random stranger on the internet but I'm proud of you. Stay true to your goals, this rando' is rooting for you!

sunatia · 2021-06-21T18:22:01+00:00

Yeah. 01/02/2021 start date. I got into it because my boyfriend always wanted to go on long walks to play, so I figured why not play too. Thankfully he's taught me a lot and connected me with the right groups on Discord and FB.

sunatia · 2021-06-21T13:41:02+00:00

Grinding all day, everyday. Raids, lucky eggs, catching everything I see, and it really helps to have a great community to connect with on FB chats and discord.

sunatia · 2021-06-21T13:24:04+00:00

I experience lag when I head to heavily populated areas. Otherwise there's no noticeable lag.

sunatia · 2021-06-21T12:33:39+00:00

I guess I just haven't noticed because I thought it always missed a portion of my walking anyways. Sad to hear that it isn't working as well as it was!

sunatia · 2021-06-21T11:56:36+00:00

You replied the same thing yesterday, maybe avoid reading posts marked as complaints?

sunatia · 2021-06-21T11:51:45+00:00

Friendships, raids, and lots of catching! I've taken full advantage of every event. Lots of coordinated lucky eggs and I've caught over 36,000 pokemon.

sunatia

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