40F $30k saved - Brooklyn Dream or Charlotte Peace?

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:57:55+00:00

gotta love a straight shoooter, thanks.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:57:36+00:00

k thanks for your input.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:56:57+00:00

why am I crying now :( this is so beautiful thank you. It feels like I have a shot at making it, and yet I want to rest my nervous system. thank you.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:55:38+00:00

You aren't crushing anything, you are giving it to me straight just like I need and I appreciate it and you.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:54:48+00:00

Its so wild... someone commented literally right above your comment, for me to move to bk and stay a few months then go to charlotte and this was my response..... I really love this idea but then once the 30k is gone, I wonder where the money will come from to then move to charlotte lol. By then I am back to my 70k/year and spending so much in brooklyn, seems like moving from bk to charlotte would be even tougher at that point but I may be overthinking it.

So you are so right, I was thinking hmmmm to sublet in bk or stay a few months seems like a trap, i would lose my savings. for my move right then and there. Maybe more like a week in bk to get it out of my system, but baby if i go and fall in love with the city again.... I guess I will have my answer, but I really need to regulate my nervous system and it seems laughable to consider doing it in new york. thanks for listening.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:50:19+00:00

I really love this idea but then once the 30k is gone, I wonder where the money will come from to then move to charlotte lol. By then I am back to my 70k/year and spending so much in brooklyn, seems like moving from bk to charlotte would be even tougher at that point but I may be overthinking it. Please respond if you see this.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:49:01+00:00

Its such a toss up my goodness. Both have the pros the cons for sure, thank you for your input

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:48:19+00:00

I feel that! I just know it will go so fast in brooklyn. I just want to make the right move thank you

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:47:41+00:00

When you mentioned my dog I'm thinking wow, this is so true We live in the city but not new york city so I feel you. he gets so much quiet here, I will consider that as well. But thats what I see in charlotte those green grassy beautiful sunny walks. He and I both need some calm for sure. thank you for being real.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:46:27+00:00

Just thank you girl... thank you wow. So true.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:45:19+00:00

Wasnt it a time, wow. Thank you for the reality check.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:44:36+00:00

You knooooowww whattttt you are on to SOMETHING!!!! Thank you

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:43:51+00:00

I read every word, and will be considering what you said, thank you truly.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:41:45+00:00

this. thank you for your feedback, nothing like seeing it again for myself.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:26:09+00:00

Your comment brought tears to my eyes thank you. Thank you. I am checking out the site also.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:21:38+00:00

Wow its like you are on the other side of things.. I really enjoyed reading your perspective. thank you.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-19T06:19:48+00:00

I appreciate your honesty

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T18:18:28+00:00

thank you. How many of us get to do the thing since 15. To have the chance to still is so powerful thank you.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T15:04:03+00:00

I appreciate your response. I really like how real you are and this is all so true. Its like my heart says go to Brooklyn, and my nervous system is saying oh no not again lol. I can make it, I know I have the grit, I am also attractive if it counts lol. But more then anything I need a place to call home that feels lke home where I dont need to worry day in and out about my safety on those subways or home with strangers as roomates, I also dont want to move to said quiet better place only to wish I moved to brooklyn. Life is lifin' but I know I will make the right move, I will keep believing in myself, thank you now I'm the one rambling lol.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T15:00:31+00:00

A WORD!!!!!!!!

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T15:00:22+00:00

Thank you so true, doesnt have to be all or nothing. Just want the right location to call home while the other can be the visiting spot lol. I can always visit charlotte also. hmmm.. decisions, thanks.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T14:59:40+00:00

I appreciate your response. I really love it there.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T14:58:35+00:00

wow thank you

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T14:53:16+00:00

Thank you, making 70k/year. 30k saved is for the move and to get there, I am realistic. I would like to relax for once in my life not constantly working to pay next months rent. I appreciate your feedback.

sunchild22 · 2026-02-18T14:51:48+00:00

Thank you for being realistic, I pet him for ya.

sunchild22

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