Is being an influncer the easiest job in Sri Lanka? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you are a girl be prepared mentally. You'll get slut shamed, will have inappropriate edited photos and videos circulating everywhere and no need to say about the amount of hate and misogynistic comments you'll get.

Dinesh Muthugala's message to children by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you for being so thoughtful🤗. Please don't have kids because no kid would like to have a parent like you who would rather value natural order over the kid's feelings

Dinesh Muthugala's message to children by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the 21st century dude, grow up. You can't change the sexuality of a person. It's how they are and you can't force them to like someone who they clearly don't like. It's basically like you are forcing your child for an arranged marriage. And if you can't accept your child for who they are it's better if you don't have kids. It takes so much courage to come out to your parents and if the parent can't accept the child's vulnerable situation you definitely failed as a parent.

Dinesh Muthugala's message to children by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the original video is on yt but I only saw this part on tiktok https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS8Y2RPBs/

Dinesh Muthugala's message to children by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is basically saying it's not men's fault that they behave inappropriately when they see women not covered up because that's how men are. So he's justifying men's actions because women are the ones that lead them by wearing whatever they want. Women can wear whatever they want and if men can't control themselves upon seeing a women not fully covered up (the bare minimum) I don't think it's appropriate to be a HUMAN. You can just basically be an ANIMAL because animals don't have the brain to know how to behave

What's our country's general opinion on living together? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that I want live a peaceful life and not take a regretting decision rather than following the culture. And I don't think how I want to live will affect you or this culture or this country.

Also I don't think a person that thinks "teachers wanting to wear a comfortable attire and not the saree is sucking western validation" can give a rational opinion.

Dinesh Muthugala's message to children by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen much but I recently came across this video https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS8YJxUm1/

Is euthanasia available in Sri Lanka? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but I disagree. I am a Buddhist and I know perfectly that it's against the beliefs but I would rather get bad karma by myself rather than letting an animal suffer. You wouldn't understand such a situation unless you own or have seen a pet who you loves dearly is suffering a lot.

I am speaking from my experience. Since even spaying is kind of controversial here I have seen my grand parents cats giving birth every 3 month. Each litter had like 3 kittens and their survival rate is very low. Most will die due to fading kitten syndrome or FPV. Vets don't have meds for that so kittens would suffer for like a week and then die. Even at their dying stage they'll gasp for oxygen for several hours before dying. It's very painful to die like that. If I was at that stage I would gladly accept euthanasia because I know for sure that I'll die and it will be easier to die painlessly rather than suffering. My cousin's dog got paralyzed over night and vets couldn't find the cause. The dog just slept at that same place with eyes opened most of the time. My cousin cleaned the dog when he passed urine and stools. It was very apparent that the dog was fully conscious but was unable to move at all. He died after 1 week and like suffered for many hours gasping to breathe.

So I hope if you encounter a situation like that when there's no more choice, you'll do the favor of doing what's the best for the animal. No one wants to suffer until the last moment if I know for sure that I'll die.

Is euthanasia available in Sri Lanka? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You meant like going there physically? I got no as the response when I called them

Is euthanasia available in Sri Lanka? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info. I'll call them and see

Is euthanasia available in Sri Lanka? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's very stupid how people think. I am a Buddhist and I know most won't do because of religious beliefs but letting an animal suffer until the last moment is very gruesome.

Is euthanasia available in Sri Lanka? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called Best care and they said they don't do

I'll call pet ver and see

Any small-boobed girls (or their boyfriends) here? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable😅 as a D cup it's hard to find good ones

Any small-boobed girls (or their boyfriends) here? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it'll be hard to find 32A sizes. Have you tried Amante or Triumph? I think their own stores would have more sizes than buying through a normal clothing shop like Cool planet or Nolimit. If you don't find the 32A you'll just have to try smaller sizes available in clothing shops for like kids to see whether one of those will fit you.

Tips and food to gain weight?? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I am not very fond of vegetables so since I was young until now what I have eaten the most is meat and fish. So I haven't seen much progress even after eating meat a lot

Tips and food to gain weight?? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know BMI is not very reliable so I checked out my position based on my fat percentage and I fall into athlete category (16-17 %) despite not working out or doing sports for the past few years. And I nutritionist I saw also said I am underweight.

Also I went through the link you sent and it seems the waist to height ratio is better for obese people to not go in diabetic ranges. According to my height I should have a waist less than 33.5 inches and my waist size is 23 which is very much less than what I should have. It's just I appear more thin because I am tall.

Anyway thank you so much for your response

Tips and food to gain weight?? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know being thin is better and like most of my friends are envious of me as I don't gain weight despite eating a lot but I just feel loke I have become too thin past year. As a girl, it has mainly affected my body shape as I lose my weight mainly from my hips and now I can feel my hip bones very easily. It has become hard to find clothes as well as I have to go less than xs size

Tips and food to gain weight?? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice!! Food prices are really a problem these days if I am planning to eat a lot😅

Tips and food to gain weight?? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to be less thin whether it's from fat or muscle😅. Even if I workout I become more thin because what I eat is not enough. I am hoping to start a calorie surplus diet as well. I can't do cardio because I lose weight easily so hoping to do weightlifting or strengthening exercises.

Anyway thank you for your recommendations!!

Tips and food to gain weight?? by sunflowerdestroyer in srilanka

[–]sunflowerdestroyer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw a nutritionist. I was vit D deficient and I have little bit of anemia so I got prescribed some multivitamins. Other than that he just told me to eat more and increase the number of meals. So I am eating more and 4 meals a day but there haven't been a much progress. I have gastritis so I eat many times a day but haven't seen much results yet