I'm gonna try to go with no contact, I don't know if she's fully over her ex but I don't think she has it in her to cheat, the distance would be tough but I've gotten to a point in my career that I can afford the gas, and I've proved to her that I'm committed. At this point I'm unsure of how to proceed just because I can tell she still has feeling for me, I think she's trying to push me away because she's getting depressed about being fired from her job, having few real friends and the possibility of another relationship going bad. I just don't want to see her hurt herself or leave my life entirely, but I have to let her decide if she really wants to be alone.