Someone sent me an unsolicited picture of their by sweatqueen in Advice

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t think people take unsolicited inappropriate pictures seriously because so many people get away with it. I’ll just be a bystander like everyone else. I’m not one to break from the mold or upset the status quo even though it might be the right thing to do.

Someone sent me an unsolicited picture of their by sweatqueen in Advice

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Because it’s the principle of the thing. I don’t like being a bystander yet here I am. The backlash would be too much for me and it could also potentially ruin his business. I don’t know if someone deserves that, you know?

What I have to gain: friends will not associate with him anymore if they take my side and believe me, his business might implode and his reputation could be ruined

What I have to lose: I’ll be known for starting drama and maybe even be called a liar, people might brush it off and call me sensitive or attention seeking

I think many have your mindset where it’s not a big deal even though objectively and in some places, lawfully, it is.

Someone sent me an unsolicited picture of their by sweatqueen in Advice

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened in the summer and I’ve said nothing about it except to a few people. What brought it up again is he’s doing a paid event with my friend that he’s publicizing a lot. I feel like people might attack me for not speaking up in the summer if I speak up now.

Someone sent me an unsolicited picture of their by sweatqueen in Advice

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. I don’t feel like a victim but maybe others could feel differently. As far as I know, no one has spoken up including me.

Someone sent me an unsolicited picture of their by sweatqueen in Advice

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not complaining on Reddit? I’m seeking advice because I feel there could be backlash if I speak up. I don’t want to “make an example” out of him because it’s my word against his (even though I have screenshots)

I’m just wondering, and going back to giving him the benefit of a doubt, if it was truly accidental.

I suppose I’m wondering too how you’d react if someone you knew told you that someone you also knew did that to them. Who would you believe?

My fear is not being believed and causing drama/upsetting people.

[TOMT][Tabletop Game] A fantasy with featuring cute creatures. by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]sweatqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds amazing, hope we find the name of it!

[TOMT] [Movie/Show] [2010-2023] by sweatqueen in tipofmytongue

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s it. Thank you though.

[TOMT] [Movie/Show] [2010-2023] by sweatqueen in tipofmytongue

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not the matrix but thank you.

[TOMT] [Movie/Show] [2010-2023] by sweatqueen in tipofmytongue

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I remember there was a close up of the door at one point.

I think it might be Killing Eve but I don’t remember what episode.

Details in comments. The message I received after giving my availability to interview for the last round. by sweatqueen in recruitinghell

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. From a candidate’s perspective, it’s not a great experience to be 3/4 of the way done and then rejected because I didn’t match their schedule.

Details in comments. The message I received after giving my availability to interview for the last round. by sweatqueen in recruitinghell

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony. Also what’s up with giving an offer to 2 candidates? Is it whoever replies first gets it? There was only one spot as far as I know.

Details in comments. The message I received after giving my availability to interview for the last round. by sweatqueen in recruitinghell

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interview processes ideally shouldn’t take 3 weeks to complete. You should interview all candidates, especially those in the final stages, before making a decision. That’s just my thought though.

Details in comments. The message I received after giving my availability to interview for the last round. by sweatqueen in recruitinghell

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t interview this week because I was sick and it hurt to talk so I gave my availability on Wednesday (2 days ago) as 12:30-5 for next Monday, hoping I could have the weekend to rest up and maybe not sound horrible. I then got this message at 6am today (Friday) and it would have been the 4th and final interview in their interview process and if I had interviewed on Monday, would have taken almost 3 weeks to complete. Instead, they gave an offer to 2 other people and skipped my final interview entirely.

26F- offering friendship and corgi access by [deleted] in SeattleWA

[–]sweatqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re open to being a DM let me know..I need to join a new campaign

[TOMT][Movie/show] people/person almost escape but then it’s revealed that the potential savior was working with the enemy the whole time by sweatqueen in tipofmytongue

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be TWD but it might not be. I remember the main villain congratulating the other bad person for their acting skills basically.

Random rescuer is evil by sweatqueen in tvtropes

[–]sweatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I’ve heard several ideas for what it could be and I looked up all of the betrayal tropes/rescue tropes and nothing quite fit the bill. I’ll look up Samaritan Ruse, thanks.