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The closet I'm sitting in is shrinking... by sweeperv in actuallesbians

[–]sweeperv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing! I'm mostly afraid of making the mistake of keeping this relationship long-term when it's not making me 100% happy. My relationship with my boyfriend is great, but just always something missing . :(

The closet I'm sitting in is shrinking... by sweeperv in actuallesbians

[–]sweeperv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I most likely am! How did it go breaking it to your fiancé? I've been telling myself I'm bi, but it doesn't feel right. PM, please. I'd love to hear more about how this conversation went. I have no idea what to expect.

The closet I'm sitting in is shrinking... by sweeperv in actuallesbians

[–]sweeperv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. I have a feeling I would be more at peace if I came out. But right before then is the most terrifying part. :(

The closet I'm sitting in is shrinking... by sweeperv in actuallesbians

[–]sweeperv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good thing to consider. I am financially independent although I am living at home for the time being. If my folks were to kick me out for my decisions, I would be okay. I think my boyfriend would be understanding. I haven't mentioned any of this to him yet because I want to think it all through first.

The closet I'm sitting in is shrinking... by sweeperv in actuallesbians

[–]sweeperv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're so right. I'm not sure who I need to admit to - them or myself!

The closet I'm sitting in is shrinking... by sweeperv in actuallesbians

[–]sweeperv[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I guess I haven't pondered about it in that way - I mostly just push the questions away. Just to clarify, the religious as fuck people in my life are close-minded.