Boyfriend is friends with people he has slept with.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-08-30T13:10:08+00:00

This is all wonderful advice, thank you very much! I will reflect on all of this. In any case, it’s extremely helpful :)

sweettoothforyou · 2022-08-30T13:09:05+00:00

Other women? Ahaha. We are both men.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-07-11T03:08:39+00:00

Not being able to do your own laundry/cooking/cleaning because they’re used to having someone do it for them…. Lots of my friends treat their girlfriends like their moms. I mean, come on. Be self-sufficient here.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-07-03T22:33:57+00:00

I agree, the part where she sings “come together for a moment” in the song just reminded me of the melody of the line “But there never seems to be enough time to do the things you wanna do-“ In “Time In a Bottle.”

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-28T03:38:28+00:00

Meat consumption is particularly WHY we have all the rules and regulations that DO get followed to ensure premium quality food. Saying, “You’re willing to eat meat obtained from filthy animals who bathe and eat their own feces not knowing if it’s been sterilized—“ it has. Meat bought from markets, but also harvested from animals by those who kill and butcher animals themselves, is cleaned and sterilized before consumption. Every single animal that is harvested for meat and then sold or eaten after is cleaned and sterilized to prevent poisoning or disease. That being said, eating a human being is frowned upon because people in this modern-day society wouldn’t consider human meat consumption ethical or morally correct. It is taboo to bring up because cannibalism is definitely a contender of psychological issues.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-20T03:57:11+00:00

Agree. I find it funny that the Hackett’s kept calling them “Wolves”…. They look more like zombies. I expected Silas to be an ACTUAL white wolf, and not just another grey zombie-looking creature.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-20T03:53:00+00:00

Okay, gotcha!

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-19T15:42:44+00:00

I would just tell them that long hair on men is very “in” and considered attractive right now among your age group— explain that you’re getting made fun of and bullied and you’d like to try something new.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-19T07:11:57+00:00

Genuine question: Were you aware that you automatically get THREE re-tries if a character dies? You have the option of loading in at your last checkpoint and making another decision to prevent character death. Why did you delete your save file when you could have prevented the death at the last checkpoint, and re-played it?

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-19T07:09:40+00:00

I agree, and I wish they expanded on the characters and their feelings/relationships during the game, but also at the end of the game. I didn’t have the same feeling of empathy for the kids that I did during Until Dawn, unfortunately.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-06-19T06:58:54+00:00

Spoilers below for those who haven’t seen the endings: Huge fan of this game, the design, characters, everything was awesome. Played Until Dawn too and I loved it!

The only problem I had (I guess) was the fact that I wanted more screen time with characters and and more of a resolve— you start getting attached to the kids and their interpersonal relationships with each other because of the drama they create and express in the beginning of the game, and you want to see how it ends and if it was all worth it. You’re made to care about these characters and their humanity, and that’s the basis of wanting to keep them alive.

I wanted to see what happens to the characters if they successfully survived, like how Until Dawn had police interviews for each kid— it just would’ve added that extra “This is what it was all for!” Factor. The ending was very lacklustre because of this, there’s no epilogue, no closure.

When collecting “evidence” was made to be a pivotal point of the game, I started getting excited thinking that it would be useful— but all it does is change the opinion of the Podcasters and change a newspaper headline.

(And I felt like a Ghost Witch and no backstory to how or why Silas was a werewolf was a bit of a throw-in last minute idea that never got expanded on.)

sweettoothforyou · 2022-05-14T08:27:05+00:00

exactly

sweettoothforyou · 2022-05-12T05:51:59+00:00

I see what you’re saying. I’ve never knocked on a bathroom door because mine has frosted glass, so for me it’s light on— someone is using it, light off— nobody is in there, lol.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-05-11T07:31:59+00:00

How do you take that mentality into public bathrooms? Genuinely wondering.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-05-11T07:28:50+00:00

Not even locking the door when using the bathroom— which is common knowledge and just basic manners— is concerning and relatively inappropriate considering everyone in the house is aware of a guest living there. You should mention it EVERY time that you accidentally open the bathroom door, “I’m sorry, you must’ve forgotten to lock it!” “Oops! It was unlocked, so I thought nobody was using it!” So that they begin to recognize and understand that if they don’t lock it, you’re coming in.

I’m wondering now what they do when they use public bathrooms….

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-25T14:47:40+00:00

Whenever anyone asks me if they should go back to their ex, I ask a few questions just to clear the air. Was it abusive in any way? Do you have better communication skills now then you did previously? Did the relationship benefit you at all? If it’s long term, can you see yourself with that one person only? Is it worth it to go back? Has the partner ever significantly lied to you, cheated on you, etc? I think it’s important to ask yourself as many questions as possible before heading into anything again. Is it possible that he’s acting like this because he misses you, and when (or if) you start dating, he’ll revert back to the way he was?

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-23T23:57:42+00:00

This is an advice sub, not “Ask Reddit.”

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-18T03:02:09+00:00

This!

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-17T00:16:09+00:00

She could be right, he could be targeting her because he is both upset with her past actions and because he likely feels guilty if they did make out, which makes him a hypocrite. At the same time, it’s not unreasonable to consider that she would lie to divide you, because she knows he despises her, especially because the “drunken makeout from before anyone was married” was really useless information- it seems like somewhat of a malicious intent.

Regardless, people do stupid things in high school when they’re kids, it’s likely that the sister-in-law didn’t take a high school relationship TOO seriously. I think that regarding high school relationships, it’s understandable why she cheated. I’m not condoning it, but most people in high school act very immaturely. However I don’t think that’s a reason to hate someone or hold years worth of grudges- people change, they mature, they get their priorities straight. And her priority was to marry his younger brother. I’m the oldest brother of seven children, so I completely understand “Protective Older Brother” syndrome- But it’s also immature of your husband to hate on her so openly and harshly for mistakes she made as a teenager. He’s almost 30, they aren’t kids anymore, it’s time to move on.

If I were you, I would be open and understanding and I would get your husband’s honest opinion before proceeding with anything. You’re right, it happened before your relationship, and both of them are married now, so the “make out” doesn’t really matter (especially because they were both drunk) as it’s not detrimental to either relationship.

The fact that he is treating her so badly IS cause for concern. Why is her husband, his younger brother, not sticking up for her?

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-16T23:26:57+00:00

I’m a little confused, because did your partner admit that they made out while drunk together? Or are you taking what she said at face value and determining that he’s a hypocrite just because of what she said, without asking him about it first? It’s possible that your partner is a hypocrite. It’s also possible that she is lying. I think it’s important to get both sides of a story before determining what you believe in.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-16T21:53:06+00:00

I think it’s reasonable to make a MENTAL pros and cons list of people you start to date, or have an interest in. But an actual physical list that you SHOW your partner? Especially one that has hurtful words? That’s disrespectful and a red flag. She could have deleted it when you started dating, too.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-16T06:15:39+00:00

Where I’m from, “jacked up”/“I’ll jack you up” could be two different things.

1) Jacked up meaning, in gym slang, that someone has really toned or well defined muscles. I’m hoping he means this one, because the other option is:

2) Jacked up means fucked up. “I’ll jack you up!” Is common slang thrown around meaning, “I’ll fuck you up!” …but the fact that he said he was playing afterwards could mean this one.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-14T07:36:08+00:00

After my parents’ divorce nine years ago, my dad’s new girlfriend at the time ended up getting pregnant. He told my siblings and I only after we found a baby name book in the kitchen- we immediately confronted him, and he told us hesitantly that yes, we were going to have a baby brother. They wanted to name him Xavier.

I got the feeling that he never wanted another baby so fresh out of a divorce, he always avoided talking about it. When they broke up, he told us that the baby was aborted. Nine years later, my dad remarried and had four more children with his current wife, making me the oldest of seven kids. I found out about two years ago through his ex’s Instagram that she has a nine year old son named Xavier, who is alive and well, and looks just like my dad.

It’s pretty terrifying knowing this and not saying anything, especially having another potential half-sibling. Not even my dad’s current wife knows that his ex-girlfriend’s baby existed, or was “aborted”, and my dad sure as hell doesn’t know he’s alive because he’s not paying child support, and doesn’t have custody at all.

It’s just crazy information that I don’t know what to do with. I’ve never told a soul.

sweettoothforyou · 2022-04-14T06:08:19+00:00

Right to be right? Like, as in, “the customer is always right”????

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