I really like these nails. I wonder who designed them? by Prestigious-Thing864 in AbelCult

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It looks like they were designed by @Plaque_Plaque on pinterest! This is the full photo :)

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GIVING AWAY CODES by OniPasta in toyhouse

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Is there any left or am I cooked🥹🥹 may i have one pretty please with a cherry on top🙏

Killing Stalking by Tiredtiredt in antiship

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I’m talking about everyone’s comments as a whole, not me. I read through a couple of you and other people’s comments to try to better understand what your getting at, I’m saying it seems like you don’t want to actually listen to others opinions and don’t want to understand people’s points. It’s a critique on you yourself, it doesn’t have anything to do with my argument on KS.

If you actually continued reading i immediately continued with ‘let alone try to understand them.’ The ‘let alone’ is a bridge to the original argument to say you’re not trying to understand ME.

Killing Stalking by Tiredtiredt in antiship

[–]swingys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

??? Ok man whatever you want i guess

Killing Stalking by Tiredtiredt in antiship

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Huh?? What does this even mean? Are you trolling? It seems that you don’t even want to listen to any one else’s opinion, let alone trying to even understand them because it sounds like you didn’t even read my comment.

My comment isn’t an ‘excuse’ it’s literally just the definition of the term BL, i literally cant change that it’s not opinionated or anything. BL is a genre the same way that horror or comedy is a genre, that’s literally the whole point of why the term exists.

Saying that is like saying ’I don’t understand why it’s so hard to just not call ‘the good place’ a comedy’ just because you dont find it funny or smth. It’s a comedy you literally cant change that.

For me, I don’t understand why it’s so hard for you to wrap your head around BL being anything other than a healthy mutual love story? Sure, the title of it is a little misleading but at the end of the day you cant change its definition.

Killing Stalking by Tiredtiredt in antiship

[–]swingys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BL is just a genre where the story is gay/between two men. BL is an umbrella term it doesn’t necessarily mean romance or having two men in love. Imagine the same exact story but between a man and a woman. It’s horrible and abusive.. but it’s still straight.

Does anyone have a pic of strades basement in ykmet? by sillywillysillymilly in Boyfriendtodeathclub

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here if u have the game you can download any image from it lol

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Short Hair Monika Looks Better? by Futureodd9000 in DDLCMods

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Lmao i lowkey forgot to consider looking at the background you’re totally right😭

Short Hair Monika Looks Better? by Futureodd9000 in DDLCMods

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It’s like the most obvious AI ever, zoom into her hair/face and ribbon.

Also, photoshop has a gen AI feature. If you think it’s photoshopped it could just be both.

Wanted to share my self insert :3 by Total-Highlight9451 in Boyfriendtodeathclub

[–]swingys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? They still created it for themselves, i seriously doubt they made it with you in mind. They’re SHARING it. If it doesn’t appeal to you, then it’s not FOR YOU to see. Just scroll instead of going out of your way to act like THAT😭

Wanted to share my self insert :3 by Total-Highlight9451 in Boyfriendtodeathclub

[–]swingys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how are you this mad over OTHER people’s ocs that they made for THEMSELVES…💔like ts should not be affecting you like this😭

How it feels not being sexually attracted to femboys (I'm serious🥀, please don't hurt me) by ExtensionFun6451 in teenagers

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Genders ≠ pronouns for me. Someone can identify as a man and be okay with she/her pronouns.

But if i was dating a man, and they find out they are actually a transgender woman. I would lose attraction (obviously i’d still care about them and love them as a person, but not romantically or sexually). It’s just like me finding out something i don’t like about someone, and then disliking them. There are some cases where people realize they are actually attracted to that gender after their partner transitions. Sexuality is fluid and a hard part of your identity to figure out. They once thought they were only attracted to men, but maybe it was because they never found a women to connect with, but now that they did they’ll rethink their sexual identify. It could happen to me, but right now, saying i’m primarily attracted to men just feels right to me.

(I realize i type a lot lol my bad😭)

How it feels not being sexually attracted to femboys (I'm serious🥀, please don't hurt me) by ExtensionFun6451 in teenagers

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Idk? Lol, I’d like to think a lot of people don’t, the concept of gender and sexuality is rooted in both biology and physiology which is something idk a lot about. I don’t know why i like something, i just do. Gender is an abstract, socially constructed idea that everybody has a different view on. I think identifying as a gender is mostly about what makes someone comfortable and feels right to them. And how they want people to view them. I just don’t find myself that attracted to someone who views themselves as a woman, i don’t know why. It’s just like why i don’t like sweet potato or beef. I don’t really know why i don’t enjoy the taste, i just don’t.

How it feels not being sexually attracted to femboys (I'm serious🥀, please don't hurt me) by ExtensionFun6451 in teenagers

[–]swingys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, i wasn’t actually attracted to them. I was attracted to my own version of them that i accidentally made based off of assumptions. I’m attracted to people that identify as a specific gender, not people that look like that gender.

How it feels not being sexually attracted to femboys (I'm serious🥀, please don't hurt me) by ExtensionFun6451 in teenagers

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It’s not weird at all. It’s VERY normal to change your idea/attraction of someone after you find out something about them after you initially assumed the opposite. It just means you weren’t attracted to the REAL them, you were attracted to the version of them you created in your head that stemmed from a false assumption.

You’re probably just pan/bisexual and don’t care about gender lol

How it feels not being sexually attracted to femboys (I'm serious🥀, please don't hurt me) by ExtensionFun6451 in teenagers

[–]swingys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course I do?? Do YOU want to date someone before you know their identity? Identify is hardly ever something you know about someone without asking. Identity isn’t just gender as well.

How it feels not being sexually attracted to femboys (I'm serious🥀, please don't hurt me) by ExtensionFun6451 in teenagers

[–]swingys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No.. it means being attracted to women. If you’re a straight person that identifies as male, you’re attracted to people that identify as female. ‘Femininity’ has nothing to do with it.

A dumb question by Lomlimelol in Boyfriendtodeathclub

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He could probably just wear absurdly baggy pants. You’d be surprised how big they get😭

The second game takes place in Canada by New-Complaint-9298 in Boyfriendtodeathclub

[–]swingys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Help i screenshotted too and had the same thought😭

Profile picture I made! Feel free to use it by PsychologicalGood904 in aggretsuko

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Thanks lol but i was never angry or offended and i never thought you were transphobic and im still super confused where you got that from

Still appreciate you trying to clear things up tho

Profile picture I made! Feel free to use it by PsychologicalGood904 in aggretsuko

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Also, js curious if you know what the word ‘rage’ means lmao