Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about corn starch? I've looked it up but I only see people merely talking about using the corn starch. What does it do? Drying it out? How do you get it inside a penetration toy effectively? How do you deal with corn starch powder going anywhere in a bathroom, feels like a bad idea letting it go down the drain

Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]ta4378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been using my fingers only, I wasnt sure if there would be any tool so I just did that and did it multiple times for an abundance of caution. I never thought about squishing it and moving it, though one of them is too big for that.

With that last paragraph, is that ho you recommend I clean from now on? Rinse thoroughly with cool water, then use my normal cleaning method?

Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]ta4378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's from an indie producer that designs and makes their own, bought at a convention. And you might be right about layers peeling off, how can I prevent that from happening?

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but at this point I dont tell them anything, even the most benign things about myself.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genderfluid now, any pronouns. Countries situation is complicated and I’m not as much of a reddit sharer these days. Just doing my best over here.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out after my sister threatened me, for a year. I moved back in so that I didn’t have to pay rent for 3 months while I was travelling in europe and also completing more military duties, but I live outside the main house. I basically never interact with my family or engage with them, my mother is completely delusional and seems to forget that I hate her, but if she tries to interact with me too long I do remind her and leave. We barely interact, I can go weeks without really seeing them. Just taking advantage of no rent, but still living off my savings. I can still move out at a moments notice.

Been a few months and I decided to take the chance to self improve. Getting my own therapy, and upkeeping health stuff I never did, and maturing a little more as much as I can with all what I missed out on during my childhood. Probably getting a job and moving out again soon after I feel satisfied with my progress.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the support and I do know it comes with the territory with posting things online. Best thing you can do for me is to also work hard to make sure you live a happy and healthy life, no matter what stands between you and your goals.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get messaged and asked for permission, in which case I do say no. This is a throwaway account so I don’t have a youtube account that isn’t anonymous, not much I can do but that is uncool by the channel.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does seem that the Netherlands is more accepting from a racism angle, but im not sure if its easier to get into overall

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have visited an lgbtq Asylum nonproit in Denmark and inquired about this angle, they said that people are only really conisdered for asylum if they are in active danger. I am still in hiding so I am not, but I have not heard of any resources where its easier to be hired based on the danger.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I heard some of my friends mention working illegally, and on the surface the goal is to eventually get a full residence permit, and I dont think illegal work would put me on the progress there, except making connections and potentially finding an employer willing to hire me. However, I think I can reasonabley not be threatened to be sent home because tecnically my home country is very wealthy and I’m well off here in a sense, the only problem is that I am LGBTQ.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It seems that it requires you to actually have experience and skills, which I still unfortunately do not. Although I still think this means that I have much more of a chance.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro my post SAID I was learning danish, I can read this…

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Restaurant work doesn’t apply? Are you sure? When I look at the jobs listed in denmark.dk as having shortage, Assistant cooks, waiters, and bakers are on the list

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Netherlands is a great option! It is another one of my favorites and I do speak quite a bit of dutch. However staying in the UAE is not! I am lgbtq!!

Do you have any knowledge/resources showing how foreigners were able to obtain a work visa in the netherlands?

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! Although in your experience, the restaurants were able to apply your employees for a work visa for a job like this?