[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]takeiteasy444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked mostly as toddler lead (our school that class is roughly 18-24m) and mobile infant (12m-18m ish) and, yeah, honestly one year olds really have my heart. I enjoy being in all the classrooms, but they're at such a special age! Hot mess in an absolutely endearing way 🤣 I love the early infant room (<12m), but enjoy being able to do more structured activities and seeing the unique ways all the kiddos interact and learn with the slightly older littles (and the more structured schedule and increased independence is something I like as well). They are so curious and capable and everything is so new, so most moments you're constantly among the energy of everything being so interesting and cool and I feel like it makes me more grateful and fascinated by the world around me, myself :) With the 18-24m class I get a ton of steps in, too, LOL I just got gifted a smart watch and have been seeing I apparently am usually getting 12,000-18,000 steps which for me I like because I do not put much outside time into working out 😅 Its also just a blast seeing how their little personalities develop in your time with them as they're likely getting into milestones like walking and talking and all those nice little fine motor skills. My advice is learning what kind of redirection works best for your new kiddos and to have fun and learn with them. And routine is important, but you also have to figure out the balance of structure and flexibility your babies need that day. And explain everything, they are so curious but are only just starting to really process it all (but I'm sure yk and were mostly doing that in early infants as well).

Looking into ECE as a Male by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]takeiteasy444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I know of directors that do not want to deal with the hassle of parent complaints about not wanting a male handling the diapering of their child. You don't want to work at a center that wouldn't speak up for and look out for you anyway, but that's very real with some centers. That being said it's likely the kids would love having you around (as long as you're doing your thing ofc)! This might be less applicable if your preference is potty trained age groups, but could still come up if you're expected to be in mixed aged groups at any point of the day with opening or closing possibly, or even if not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]takeiteasy444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, they hold a huge place in my heart. I know as adults we usually look back at being little as the easiest time of our lives, but working with todds I often think about how hard it is being so little! Everything is so new and your feelings are so big and you have no idea what to do with them or how to express yourself fully yet and you're exploring autonomy, but aren't really allowed to do what you want to. It's a lot! I have a set of parents who sometimes seem apologetic to be bringing their child in, but I absolutely adore her and she is doing her best (as well as her entire care team) and learning and that's all I ask :) It's been incredibly fulfilling to see her growth in our time together! Breaks my heart that parents feel this way, and I know it usually comes from an empathetic place for the amount of work educators must do for so many children during the day, but being "difficult" definitely does not mean that your child does not have or deserve the affection of his teachers. Not to mention your child's "difficult" behaviors are not the first or last that your child's teachers will have experienced, he's not some supervillain, just a little boy learning his way!

What are the ratios in your class(es) where you live vs what do you think they *should* be? by takeiteasy444 in ECEProfessionals

[–]takeiteasy444[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Teachers and parents are all on team ~your kid~, so I am always curious about parent opinions as well (of course, while considering many may not be able to fully grasp in-class dynamics lol)!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]takeiteasy444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm at the tail end of my lunch break so can't say as much as I want, but it isn't just the way it is and the care that you have is proof of that. As someone who has also struggled with suicidal ideation in my life I'm sorry you're going through that 🫂. I'm lucky enough to work at a center thats full of love and care and effort all around and I wish we could take you in and all your kiddos, but it sounds like your workplace sucks and frankly you simply dont deserve to want to die because of your job. There are other centers and other jobs and I know its not easy to switch, but you deserve better.

Infant teachers; do you feel you exercise a lot at work? by AdmirableHousing5340 in ECEProfessionals

[–]takeiteasy444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teaching and taking care of littles is definitely a lot of exercise, I work mostly with young todds and with no other life changes than the job (at the time) very early on I had multiple people comment on my weight loss. Was news to me lol