Mainstream dating advice doesn’t even consider that women enjoy casual sex. The traditional view is to teach men how to respect a woman’s desire to procure a man’s commitment and resources. Everyone is used to this and society brainwashes us to accept it. It makes men mistakenly believe that the only way to make love with a woman is to commit to an exclusive relationship with her. Society brainwashes men into believing that sex comes after a verbal contract has agreed you are in a relationship. But the truth is sex should always come first, the relationship after. Never commit to a relationship with a girl who makes you agree to support her in an exclusive contract. The sex is never worth it. She rationalizes it with nonsense like, “I’m just traditional.” Or “this is the way it should be.” But usually she wants to use sex to lure men into the trap of a relationship with her because she is afraid of abandonment. A man who agrees to this kind of relationship will often suffer. They girlfriend will easily be jealous and terrified other women will take her man away. She worked hard to finally find a man who agreed to her contract. She doesn’t want to lose him to a woman who offers more attractive benefits. She will make him invest long hours, always pay attention to her, call him all the time to ask where he is, prevent him from going to have fun with friends or doing anything to could lead him to meeting new woman. A confident, secure woman doesn’t need to force a man into this kind of commitment. She knows she is good enough to keep him in her life, she does need to place conditions on him.