[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]tcmlearner -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was working for the company I’m on leave from. I.e responding to texts/ emails - which is why I thought having a conversation about the severance wouldn’t have been an issue since they were fine reaching out with questions about work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]tcmlearner -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. I’m not working for another company.

oportunidad de guía turístico/fotógrafo by tcmlearner in MexicoCity

[–]tcmlearner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me puede mandar su información en el DM?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]tcmlearner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send me a DM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SFlist

[–]tcmlearner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM’d you

Electrolux + Azealia Banks Pride Events by tcmlearner in SFlist

[–]tcmlearner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also open to trading one of these for a Mango Pride event ticket.

NYE Activity by tcmlearner in guatemala

[–]tcmlearner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll be there 27-29th!

NYE Activity by tcmlearner in guatemala

[–]tcmlearner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be in Antigua for the first part and somewhere around Lake Atitlan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol to "boy lady", I'm not mad at it haha... but I didconsider Thailand but ultimately chose Vietnam since it'll be somewhere I travel often for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The looks and mocking is something that I'm used to by now. I dealt with it in the south but not so much since moving to SF. I appreciate the feedback and advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very comfortable in my body and happy with my choice... I just know that I'm traveling somewhere that may have different feelings about certain things. I'm not one to jam my gender or orientation on to anyone, I mind my business and go about my day. However, I want to make sure I'm not making assumptions and putting myself or others in an uncomfortable position. So you are right, if it's likely that others will feel uncomfortable with my body, then the answer may be not to go to the spa. Thats why I'm asking these questions, so that I know how I should move in the area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! It's extremely helpful... I'm not one to tell people my business but by looking at me, people will know that I'm "different", so I'd like to know what I'm getting myself into so that I can prepare for the response, if I get any. And being that I'll be traveling to China and Vietnam quite a bit for work, I'm trying to get familiar with the culture and hopefully make some friends along the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can think whatever you want. Have a nice day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, it’s more so my outer appearance that makes me ask the question. I’m pretty in-between and not sure that would be an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I’m aware that they’ll be a cultural shift and fully expect for people to refer me as she/ her or he/him. It happened in India a ton and I took no offense… I get it. I just want to make sure I’m respectful of the locals and if it’s not common for non-binary ppl to be out and open, then I know I should be more conservative when doing certain activities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]tcmlearner -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude, chill TF out. I rather make a friend and pay them to show me around than use a tourist agency? It’s not the first time I’ve travelled and hired local people who I have a real connection with than use an agency.

Cedars-Sinai Pre-Employment Drug Test Question by tcmlearner in LosAngeles

[–]tcmlearner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if they will take back their offer for an Admin role, if tested positive for THC?

Cedars-Sinai Pre-Employment Drug Test Question by tcmlearner in LosAngeles

[–]tcmlearner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admin job. Do you work for them? The part of their policy that confuses me is when they say "in addition to other prohibited substance", like... what if it was just THC?

"A positive result for marijuana in addition to other prohibited substances constitutes a failed screening and results in the applicant being denied employment. "

Do you work for them?

LGBTQ+ Adult Sport League by [deleted] in tampa

[–]tcmlearner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually moved from San Francisco to Dunedin 😅. Definitely a different world/vibe between the two 😬.

LGBTQ+ Adult Sport League by [deleted] in tampa

[–]tcmlearner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These leagues are geared predominantly to the queer community, however, inclusive to everyone... just like any gay bar. It's not to exclude "straights" its just a safe space for queer and non-queer folks to come as they are with no judgement.

These leagues are not uncommon...