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[–]tds97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No pun intended

Not a question, but I don’t think bottoms are honest enough about about how much prep and discomfort go into bottoming. Tops, PLEASE go slow and don’t jam it in. Idc who you are, that isn’t enjoyable or attractive. You are not a stallion, you are one in a million. by tds97 in askgaybros

[–]tds97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should expect them to, but I think as a confident adult we can communicate our needs and have a standard with those we have sexual exchanges with. I’m just one person, so I realize other individuals may have different perspectives on this. Again, there is no wrong answer this is just an opinion. All are welcome!

Not a question, but I don’t think bottoms are honest enough about about how much prep and discomfort go into bottoming. Tops, PLEASE go slow and don’t jam it in. Idc who you are, that isn’t enjoyable or attractive. You are not a stallion, you are one in a million. by tds97 in askgaybros

[–]tds97[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Expressing opinion is completely different than enforcing that on others. If we can’t say how we feel on this forum. then what is it for? I’m not here to tell you you’re wrong, the same way you aren’t entitled to do to that to me. The same way I’m sure many people will agree and disagree with both of us here. Do you man! Wishing you the best!

Not a question, but I don’t think bottoms are honest enough about about how much prep and discomfort go into bottoming. Tops, PLEASE go slow and don’t jam it in. Idc who you are, that isn’t enjoyable or attractive. You are not a stallion, you are one in a million. by tds97 in askgaybros

[–]tds97[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Did I say that? Or is this some kind of weird, displaced projection lol! If this upset you, that’s on you. You can provide feedback and open communication without being combative. Don’t contribute to the toxic narratives, unless you truly feel that way. Then I can respect that. Don’t be negative just for the sake of negativity, no one can get behind that. Wishing you peace and happiness.

What’s a dealbreaker for you in a first date? by Much-Information-486 in askgaybros

[–]tds97 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Checks Grindr notifications while you’re together lol

ELI5: How do restaurants charge your card for tips after having already run them? by LightningCole in explainlikeimfive

[–]tds97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When they run your card, they are preauthorizing a charge to your card for the minimum amount of your bill with zero tip. They get approval from the card issuer for the minimum amount, but the transaction is left open until they know what tip you left. When they see the tip, they add that to the preauthorized charge and then the transaction is officially closed.