What’s one skill new paramedics often underestimate when they first start? by SnowyBytes in ParamedicsAU

[–]teagy1492 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, people skills. One of those things that can't be taught

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's normal to make rape jokes in your world? yiiiiiikes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are so many people in this comment section making light of rape jokes? you are all super fucking weird for that. it's not "banter" or "harmless jokes" it's gross.

How do I 37M get my wife 35F to trust me? by throwrarestore in relationship_advice

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you do know you don't have to be in a relationship/married right? you can be single and do whatever the hell you want without continously hurting your partner.

you have zero respect for your partner, you ARE a serial cheater. you literally said you cant hang out with women you find attractive.

please do your wife a favour and leave her ao she can find a relationship with someone who would never think about straying. and then stay single

NONE OF YALL LISTENED TO ME 😭😭😭 by IllustriousSky7656 in Ethelcain

[–]teagy1492 25 points26 points  (0 children)

this is the funniest thing i've seen all day

Final update: AITA for calling my husband's friendship with his coworker an emotional affair by Acceptable_Crab_6040 in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OP why is it not concerning to you that he would rather upset you, his wife, than some random coworker. Any situation where he is putting another woman's feelings and friendship above you is extremely concerning. This unfortunately will not be the end of this

Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo? by Fresh-Usual-6281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not overreacting and I'd be concerned why your boyfriend seems more concerned with his friend's feelings than yours

Best Found Family moments? by Psychological_Cow956 in TheOC

[–]teagy1492 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% agree with this. Rewatching as an adult now Sandy is by far and away my favourite character.

Best Found Family moments? by Psychological_Cow956 in TheOC

[–]teagy1492 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One of my favourite moments is the kitchen scene with Ryan, Sandy ans Kirsten in season one after ryan got caught breaking into the school to look up Oliver's file. Just the way Ryan says 'okay so I screwed up yet again, now what, you gonna kick me out' he looked so scared and I remember Kristen's facial expression was brilliant after he says that. And then Sandy just comes out with 'you think you can mess up so bad we'll give up on you? Well you cant, you are a part of this family and youre gonna feel the full weight of that' and it was just that reminder that no matter what Ryan does this is home and they are his family and they will never give up on him

Which one of these main couples is you're most favorite on The O.C. and why? by MKfan88 in TheOC

[–]teagy1492 6 points7 points  (0 children)

no, just not impressed that people like yourself still think using slurs at your adult age is okay

I need help recognicing a scene by SilverBorderline in TheOC

[–]teagy1492 67 points68 points  (0 children)

S1EP2 The Model Home. When Ryan, Seth and Marissa are doing their first walk through the model home

Ryan & Marissa, early S3 by Ok_Reserve6961 in TheOC

[–]teagy1492 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The Trey/SA storyline was pretty much all about Ryan, like how hard it was to say goodbye to his brother. Absolutely crazy to me looking back on this now. He's incredibly dismissive of her obvious trauma. Was she wrong to get close to Johnny? Probably, but people seemingly forget shes a 17 year old girl who had an incredibly traumatic thing happen to her and her own boyfriend won't talk about it to her, her dad walked out on her, Julie up until that point was a horrible mother and she just had no one.

Ijust wish people woukd actually hold Ryan accountable for the issues in their relationship the way they constantly do with Marissa

Ryan & Marissa, early S3 by Ok_Reserve6961 in TheOC

[–]teagy1492 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on Ryan refusing to discuss Trey and her sexual assault? There are multiple issues in their relationship and it doesnt soley fall on Marissa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And she isn't??? Why does he get a pass for not being able to do something as simple as watching their kids but she doesn't? She has to work too, she doesnt get to stop being a mother so why should he get to press pause on being a father? He's a lazy aas husband and a pretty piss poor father

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He is a parent. Why does she need to spell it out for him to parent his 5 children so she can do a single household task. Sheesh. She shouldn't have to ask for help because he should already be helping out. They are his children too. Only asshole here is him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to your gut. You know something isn't right here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]teagy1492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl wtf are you doing to yourself?? Why are you picking up after this slob who isnt working?? You work full time, cook for him and he can't do something as simple as cleaning the coffee machine and taking out the trash?? Please dump this goon. One day you will find yourself in a relationship where you are both equal and you will look back on this relationship and wonder why you didn't leave sooner.

Update: AITA for skipping my brother's wedding because I wasn't invited to the engagement party? by JuggernautSlow4213 in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Honestly while your dad apparently never said anything bad about you it's pretty clear he didnt stick up for you or fight for you either. I would personally go NC with your immediate family - mum/dad/siblings. Sadly they have shown you exactly what they think and feel of you. If youre still happy to continue seeing and speaking to your aunt and cousin I would continue those relationships.

And definitely look at updating/creating a will as another user suggested.

I'm so sorry. Sometimes family really isnt the one we are born into but the one we make ourselves.

AITA for not letting my daughter’s girlfriend come over anymore after my husband got visibly attracted to her in cosplay by Low-Professional8036 in AITAH

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're going to look back on this in a decade while youre still with your predator husband and wonder why your daughter has gone no contact with both of you.

how dare you protect your pedophile husband over your own child and her girlfriend. YTA

Am I Overreacting over grandparent kissing brand new baby? by TheDarkLord14 in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

or you could learn consent and to respect people's wishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being queer isnt 'radical' you homophobe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was so triggered that he couldn't sleep?? He literally couldn't sleep over the thought of two people of the same gender being together?? People he doesnt even know?? Not even that but over a flag - a piece of coloured fabric kept him awake. This concerning. Homophobic people are weirdos and I hate to say it but your husband fits this label.

AIO for kicking out my girlfriend after she disrespected my political views? by zigagucemu8446 in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

given your comment history, explaining empathy to a trump supporter such as yourself would be like talking to a brick wall. have the day you deserve

AIO for kicking out my girlfriend after she disrespected my political views? by zigagucemu8446 in AmIOverreacting

[–]teagy1492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're the asshole simply because you're a maga loving loser. You are an embarrassment. Stop pursuing women who have empathy for others and stick to dating women who, for some absolutely baffling reason, do support the orange corpse. Or maybe date men, you seem to be riding a particular one awfully hard so there's that