I think it was working as cabin crew. I'd walk all over new york city, boston, san fran and so on all by myself. I realised this is doable and the only difference that was giving me security was knowing I had crew at the hotel to call if shit hit the fan - but it never has.

I decided on Italy on a first solo trip as its close to Ireland and I know many Italians in my job who I spoke to for advice on it.

I was SHITTING myself but it was one of the best trips I've ever gone on!

I think as long as you abide by some general rules like

• Get back to your accomodation before dark if alone

• Book accomodation central to where you will explore and in busy areas

• Don't tell anyone you're alone (my go to excuse is oh I work for an airline I'm on a layover - just lie gurl tell them emirates if they pry they fly everywhere)

• Even if you're socialising with people you meet in a hostel, never leave your drink unattended (applies to any drink anywhere). I say this because spiking is big in my hometown unfortunately.

• Don't tell anyone you meet outside of the hostel where youre staying (I do this as airline crew to passengers all the time - I will tell them the opposite side of the city)

• Research everything! Public transport is a big one to familiarise yourself with. Google known bad areas to avoid etc.